Live Straight Sex Turns To Frustration...again

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justsukplz1000 said:
I am writing this post LIVE from the scene where for the third time this month and with the second girlfriend, I have had to FORFEIT good, wholesome sex because she was too busy moaning "it's too big" to even care that I 'm trying to have sex.

She then runs off to the bathroom to clean herself or dfinger herself or check for blood or something and I'm left to literally watch my throbbing penis deflate and my emotions go from horny to explosive anger. I put on my clothes, decided I'm not going to even bother making "sweet love" to this woman.

Sometimes a man needs to ram and today, I just couldn't get that.

Just to share frustrztion and get some understanding, perhapsfrom someone who does know they're goals even if they're just out of reach right now, this is the second time and I'm fed up with having non-penetrative sex with girls who are excited by doing the other stuff , great, thanks, but when it comes to the sex disappear to the bathroom because the're shocked at my penis size which isn't humongous compared to some of the sausages I've seen online whioch have been exteneded.

By the time you come back, I'm sorry, but I can't "stop-start" my passion like that.

Just my few cents anyway.

Yes, indeed, being large has its drawbacks. Not every woman will want one. But, no need to dispear.
Those girls that shy away do so out of myths like " your pussy will get overstretched" ar the many myths anybody could make up for any given situation.
A woman can accomodate anything the size of a baby. Some girls even fist , never seen it, but, no cock, sizewise, will ever rival a fist.

In my case, I had my share, but I take it in stride. I get very excited with those reactions, and, in fact, a girl that reacts like that probably is never seen a large penis, and, she is overwhelmed.

But that same girl is craving for you to slowly tame her. That is the step you are not taking by overreacting yourself.

Like someone said, break her in.
Move to oral sex, eat her pussy, I love that myself, I heard small guys resort to that, and girls love it, so, imagine us, large guys, eating pussy and driving them wild.
Nobody told me to eat pussy, but, I just love it. I recommend it. Once she has had a few orgasms, or, if no orgasms, ( some girls do not get M ) she will get so wet and ripe, that, under the passion of lust, she will beg you to enter her.
Eat her, ask her to give you oral too, even if she can not take it in her mouth, she will love to worship it, the way we worship their pussies, and, you will get there, where you want to be, w no stress.

My advise, eat her.
:saevilw:
You know, personally, I like eating pussy even more than intercourse, perhaps I am a freak....
 

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Ok, she has agreed to stay the night. This is good. I have left her alone with some of my many books, which she says she loves. Currently, she is reading a romantic novel about a sexy young girl finding herself with another girl...

I will cook a pizza, have some coffee and probably look at some porn to get me in the modd. Later tonight, I will kiss her for about 1.5 hours, probably slap her ass a bit with my dick especially if any wet comes out, and encourage her to give some deep, long slow oral whilst running my hands through her hair, possibly strking her face.

If she's uncomfortable going 69 I will kiss her body until she allows me to lick her out and if she wants it as you say, give her 2-3 hours of doggy with a condom, with no break whatsover, even if she asks, I will make the breaks very short indeed.

If she says I love you, or anything different like "you make me feel safe" or comments on the length of time of the sex as being unbelievable, I will commit to her to be in relationship using sweet talk.

Otherwise, I will keep her as a contact, possibly using my "I love you, let's be friends" technique if she gets in the way of either business or pleasure.
 

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Bravo sir! Bravo! You have rather brilliantly figured out a way that if something goes wrong it is once again ALL HER FAULT. If she chooses door 1 we have a relationship. If she chooses door number 2, it is over. It is all in her court and you have absolved yourself of any responsibility.

I find it amazing that you are willing to broadcast all of your sexual difficulties, in great detail, to the entire world in order to avoid talking about those sexual difficulties with the one person who can help resolve them; your girlfriend. You are very very male. You would rather sabotage your relationship than talk about it with her.

Why in the hell is she sitting in another room reading romance novels? The two of you should be naked in bed together caressing and talking these issues over in a compassionate way. Admittedly, it isn't very alpha male, but it is what a real man does in this situation. Tell her how much it hurt you when the two of you stopped earlier. Acknowledge her physical pain. Describe in detail what you wanted to do. And I mean in detail. Let her see you get an erection from it. Let her see how horny you get. That is how you communicate how important it is for you. Then TOGETHER you can seek out a solution.

Let me reiterate from my earlier post. Sex is about the TWO of you and problems require solutions to be worked out between the TWO of you. Relationships require courage and sacrifice. So far I have seen little of either from you.

I have a feeling that the problem in this relationship is a lot bigger than your big dick. Learn to communicate. I hope it works out. But I'm not holding my breath.
 

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Not at all am I absolving myself of anything.

I'm 100% RESPONSIBLE.

I just said I'm willing to commit to this person, sex not being the be all and end all of the relationship and I'm also 100% confident the sex will be fine.

The only issue I have is I'm not that passionate to spend a lot of time having sex. That's not neccessarily a problem or indication of anything deeper going on for me.

For me, I can as much feeling and connection not from sex, but I think there needs to be a balance and especially if there's a relationship I have to think about the other persons needs and my own instinctual desires and where the two are going to meet.
 

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