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Just as the lockdown was happening my wife invited a backpacker that was a friend of hers friend to stay with us so he could move out of his shared house - She didn't really ask me I was just told when he arrived and it was only until the lockdowns eased - I should note we don't have a spare room and at the beginning he was sleeping on the sofa bed. Was told its because to help him out as he was working in fitness and couldn't work.
I wasn't stupid I knew something was up and that it wasn't all about providing shelter.
But basically it ended up in a situation where he always sleeps in our bed, me being pushed to the sofa at times. She has moved him to king of the house. All he dominate ways have come out with the enablement of him. She doesn't even pretend to ask me anymore. Neither does him. - They don't seem to be in love with each other it seems its a physical thing and they both seem to enjoy the dynamic I may have let them have over me.
I was willing to ride it out for a few weeks. But she keeps saying that she wants him to stay for at least a few more months.
I am thinking of asking her to set a date for him to move, is that a fair thing to do?
Just as the lockdown was happening my wife invited a backpacker that was a friend of hers friend to stay with us so he could move out of his shared house - She didn't really ask me I was just told when he arrived and it was only until the lockdowns eased - I should note we don't have a spare room and at the beginning he was sleeping on the sofa bed. Was told its because to help him out as he was working in fitness and couldn't work.
I wasn't stupid I knew something was up and that it wasn't all about providing shelter.
But basically it ended up in a situation where he always sleeps in our bed, me being pushed to the sofa at times. She has moved him to king of the house. All he dominate ways have come out with the enablement of him. She doesn't even pretend to ask me anymore. Neither does him. - They don't seem to be in love with each other it seems its a physical thing and they both seem to enjoy the dynamic I may have let them have over me.
I was willing to ride it out for a few weeks. But she keeps saying that she wants him to stay for at least a few more months.
I am thinking of asking her to set a date for him to move, is that a fair thing to do?