Cool they handled it well...where I'm from...you reply to any questions "so where you looking at my dick?" Just the threat of having to answer that would keep most guys quiet. I popped a couple and saw a few popped...no big deal!
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Cool they handled it well...where I'm from...you reply to any questions "so where you looking at my dick?" Just the threat of having to answer that would keep most guys quiet. I popped a couple and saw a few popped...no big deal!
Yeah the older guys are much more cooler about it. I'm sure if it had been a couple of younger guys it wouldnt have been that easy. But I wouldnt care, life is life and things happen. The old guys totally understood my position as I am a young guy and anything could turn me on, even the breeze of fresh air. I think many more young men need to adopt this theory. The homophobia with nakedness is absured I think, and people need to get over it.
I think what leads to people being much more shy about their body is because of peer pressure and how they are raised in their household. If you are taught to hide your body when you grow up, thats your mentality. I however didnt grow up like that. So for some people its how they grow up, and others its peer pressure. I'm sure once they get about 25+ or their 30's they wont care anymore about it as peer pressure isnt an issue at these ages (atleast I dont think so)
My advice for avoiding pesky random boners in the locker room and shower is use a "rushing" mind game. As if you're late for something and need to hurry and get in, get clean, dry off, get dressed, and go. without focusing on anything else. this should keep you distracted from your mind wandering off thinking about anything arousing. (works for me sometimes when I'm super horny....
)It happened to me a lot in college, not so much because of age I believe but because being naked in a public space, if an all-male one, was new and exciting.
I did have to resort to a mix of 100% cold water-0% hot water, a natural remedy.
The remedy would occasionally fail, as in the chain erections scenario (1 guy loses control, then someome else loses control, then forget it, you're hard): Hell would break loose and there would be no remedy. Then again, the embarassment would be shared and temporary.
I did have to resort to a mix of 100% cold water-0% hot water, a natural remedy.
The remedy would occasionally fail, as in the chain erections scenario (1 guy loses control, then someome else loses control, then forget it, you're hard): Hell would break loose and there would be no remedy. Then again, the embarassment would be shared and temporary.
I guess that conflict between the "Id" and the "Super-Ego" is at play then.
Your Super-Ego says "You're not supposed to get a woody in public". The Id says "That other guy is having one so let it go".
By now I've taken so many showers at so many gyms with so many guys, ranging from "The Missing Link" to "Get Lost You Threateningly Flawless Runway Model", that accidental erections no longer happen even when the water's hot and I had a good swim (which like bike riding makes me horny).
But back then, showering stark naked for the first time in front of other people / guys, there was an element of excitement that could result in Erectile .. hmmm ... Function?
It would happen to me even when I was alone in that shower room. The mere thought that some dude could walk in on me bare ass at any time created a tension.
Your Super-Ego says "You're not supposed to get a woody in public". The Id says "That other guy is having one so let it go".
By now I've taken so many showers at so many gyms with so many guys, ranging from "The Missing Link" to "Get Lost You Threateningly Flawless Runway Model", that accidental erections no longer happen even when the water's hot and I had a good swim (which like bike riding makes me horny).
But back then, showering stark naked for the first time in front of other people / guys, there was an element of excitement that could result in Erectile .. hmmm ... Function?
It would happen to me even when I was alone in that shower room. The mere thought that some dude could walk in on me bare ass at any time created a tension.
I have a bisexual friend named Justin and he just came out as being that way. Prior to, he was on (our school's) basketball team. So now that they know his dirty little secret, they did not want him in the locker room with them. Although they did not get naked in those sessions, they were still uneasy.
The point that I'm trying to make here is that people cannot understand the things that certain people go through.
People (younger and older alike) can't get over the thought that there are people that find their naked bodies attractive. You should never have to change who you are just to accomodate their preferences.
If you have a problem with guys or girls giving you a sight full (their erection, per the guys) then you should take comfort in the fact that they are attracted to you and repulsed by you.
The point that I'm trying to make here is that people cannot understand the things that certain people go through.
People (younger and older alike) can't get over the thought that there are people that find their naked bodies attractive. You should never have to change who you are just to accomodate their preferences.
If you have a problem with guys or girls giving you a sight full (their erection, per the guys) then you should take comfort in the fact that they are attracted to you and repulsed by you.
Still, nobody should be forced into a sexual situation and there is such a thing as personal space.
There is a huge difference between a guy who sports an accidental erection and a guy who will nurse that erection and downright masturbate at a public gym whether or not the "target" guy, straight or gay, likes it.
Lately, there's been that creep at my gym who will head straight for the stall next to mine (when the room is empty otherwise) and masturbate. It's really repulsive and hard to ignore through the glass partition.
I forcefully asked him to stop and he did, but then a week later he started doing it with other unsuspecting guys, getting out of his stall and eying into the stalls of those poor other dudes.
That's WAY crossing the line.
There is a huge difference between a guy who sports an accidental erection and a guy who will nurse that erection and downright masturbate at a public gym whether or not the "target" guy, straight or gay, likes it.
Lately, there's been that creep at my gym who will head straight for the stall next to mine (when the room is empty otherwise) and masturbate. It's really repulsive and hard to ignore through the glass partition.
I forcefully asked him to stop and he did, but then a week later he started doing it with other unsuspecting guys, getting out of his stall and eying into the stalls of those poor other dudes.
That's WAY crossing the line.
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All Guys Get Boner!!! [Until You Kick The Bucket] It Natural..I get boner in my office thinking about work nothing to do with sex or anyone. Sometimes I can't get up from the desk, other times, I just walk to the copier or bathroom then it decrease. On the way, there might get someone watching.
One advise back in the days, that man should not turn his nude butts in the face of another man. One thing I have notice with huge guys in the locker room that they don't become hard walking around, talking to other guys or shaving in the mirror nude. These are so well endowed men, just hanging for everyone to see.
One advise back in the days, that man should not turn his nude butts in the face of another man. One thing I have notice with huge guys in the locker room that they don't become hard walking around, talking to other guys or shaving in the mirror nude. These are so well endowed men, just hanging for everyone to see.
My locker room advice is to change at home as there seem to be so many issues around locker rooms.
I often get boners after a workout...its no big deal..actually have never paid that much attention to the other guys to see if that happens to them. I just feel so stress free - my dick is happy and I thought it was normal.
I keep a towel and hold the towel and my dick with one hand and move to the lockers...we are guys and thats just the way we are...and if I am in the shower alone - I have been known to soap it up and jack.
I keep a towel and hold the towel and my dick with one hand and move to the lockers...we are guys and thats just the way we are...and if I am in the shower alone - I have been known to soap it up and jack.
You said it was happening a lot when you were around 14, did it happen in the locker room/bathroom/shower room with older guys there and all, and how did they and u handle it?
uh, I don't know, I don't think anybody was looking.
In school, and sports I remember it would happen to other guys.
A lot of them were kind of roudy, and they would make a rude show of it or something. You'll probably remember something similar.
It wasn't usually there thought it happened to me. Or if it was, I don't remember because, there was more privacy, if you wanted, just the people in your locker block. I would just cover up.
At the beach - I live on the coast - in the changing room, the whole thing is open. There were, yes older guys, guys of all ages & people I didn't know, and that was more embarresing. This is what I was talking about in my post. What would I do? - Just cover up quick with a towel, get dressed quick, and tuck my boner sideways into my pants. I'm not really one of those guys who takes off his pants, and then walks around, shaves, takes a piss, ect.
So, it never was a huge issue for me. Just embarresing then - which probably made me get them. Thinking back on it now though, I can remember noticing other guys having them too then - older teenagers I didn't know.
I can't say I've noticed to many guys with erections at the beach/gym as I got older. I don't make a habit of checking other guys dicks out as they get changed, but obviously you see - especially with those walkers I was mentioning above. If somebody is hard, he probably covers it up & nobody notices.
I see hard dicks all the time at the lockerroom!
A lot of guys get it a bit hard after working out. No worries. You're probably paranoid about yourself. Surely noone even notice if you go hard.
Just go easy and people will go easy about it.
Every man has hards on sometime in the shower or lockerrom. Noone will mind.
A lot of guys get it a bit hard after working out. No worries. You're probably paranoid about yourself. Surely noone even notice if you go hard.
Just go easy and people will go easy about it.
Every man has hards on sometime in the shower or lockerrom. Noone will mind.
I would think to myself, "Gee, how lucky I am to be able to see that!" Then I'd remember "jail bait" and quickly go about my business. But I guarantee, it would make my day! :smile:
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When I work out and swim at the regular gym (not the one in my school), there are a lot of older guys there. So I guess I'll try out what you say there first, it sounds like they well just be very cool with it and all, right?
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