I know this issue has been raised before, but not with the same result as in this case. Don't think I'm a homophobe or anything, I have gay friends I've made in college; this one guy just pissed me off and threatened me. So I just moved to a new town and started working out at the local university's gym. Last month I started up a conversation with these other college guys who are always working out when I'm there and we spot each other and chat about stuff. A few weeks ago we leave the gym at the same time and in the locker room I get naked to go to the sauna and shower and these buds are like "Hey bro, I wouldn't go in the showers if I were you." I ask why and they say that a lot of gay guys, young and old, cruise the showers to feast their eyes on young, muscular, naked college men. It really loosens up my muscles to sauna and take a hot shower after working out, so I brushed off the comment and up until today there have been no real problems. Sure, I've seen guys looking at my cock, sneaking peeks, and I sneak a peek or two to size up, but that doesn't bother me and it doesn't seem to bother others. It was different this evening though. After my workout I enter the shower and it's obvious that this 50 or so year old, potbellied, double-earringed gay guy is blatantly staring at me. I don't even get to lathering up and I can't take it anymore. I turn off the shower, grab my towel and go into the sauna. Less than a minute later he enters the sauna, sits across from me and continues sizing me up. I can stand it for a couple minutes, then I go back to the shower. He follows me back. I wet my face then go back to the sauna. He follows me back. I leave right away and go back to the shower, hoping he catches the hint. He comes into the shower room a minute or so later. I'm already partly lathered up, so I suck it up and ignore him as he starts to shower under the showerhead right next to me, still staring at me. I rinse off and start cleaning under my foreskin before I wash my hair, ignoring him, when I hear him say "Can I help you with that?". I say "Fuck off man" and move to the showerhead one more away from him. He then says "I wanna eat that cake" and I turn to him with my fist at my shoulder and say "Fuck off, faggot!". He turns off his showerhead and leaves while I stare at him with my fist at my shoulder. I start washing my hair when a minute or so later a security guard enters the shower room and asks me if I threatened another guy in the shower. I said that he threatened me first and that he was sexually harrassing me. The other two guys in the shower at the time came over to talk to the security guard too and backed me up. The fuck-up security guard ignores me and those guys, saying that the university has strict anti-hate rules and that if there are any more reports about me my gym membership will be revoked. I argued with the guy, buck naked in the shower room, but when I noticed that he was staring at my cock a lot I knew I wouldn't win; I think the security guard was gay too. I finally say it won't happen again, he leaves, I wash my hair, get dressed and leave. What pisses me off is the double standard. I'm the victim. It's like convicting a girl who pepper sprays a pervert who talks lewdly to her in a dark park. I mean, if those showers were co-ed, I'd get in such deep shit if I asked if I could clean the pussy of a girl I never met then said I wanted to fuck her after she turns me down. This shit just pisses me off. I had to vent, and hopefully prevent some gay guys here from pulling the same sort of shit later, thinking it's all right when it's not. Just a side note, unrelated to all this, almost all the guys under 25 that I've seen in the locker room at that gym are uncut, like 90%. 40 to 25 year olds are still around 60% uncut. This really surprised me because I was the only uncut guy on my hometown hockey and football teams, 500 miles down the road. Circumcision rates are lower here in Canada, but it was nice to see that foreskin is so prevalent here.