So... you're telling me I'm not entitled to be offended or upset when I am the
victim of sexual predation or crude, unwanted advances, because I happen to be a straight male? Or are you saying that
nobody is entitled to be offended?
I never said that you (or the OP) are not entitled to be offended. Getting cruised or hit on when you don't want to be by someone you're not even remotely attracted to is annoying and can be offensive.
However, my problem is using the terms "victimization" and "sexual predation" to describe something that simply offended the OPs sensibilities (gay guy and old and fat). In order to be a victim or prey, the person doing the victimization and predation has to be able to somehow overpower you (in this case, physically). From what I can tell, this was not the case.
Using these very charged terms to describe this incident only serves to weaken the real meaning of what sexual predation is. The OP was in no real danger of being molested or raped.
I asked my husband about this last night because he's very straight and has gotten hit on by gay men a lot. His response was that the times it's happened, he said he wasn't interested once or twice, and if he had to, walked away and let it go. Like me, he just didn't see the big deal. It's not like the guy has you physically restrained and is trying to play with your dick. All he did was look and say something once.
BTW, the OPs story about moving from room to room may have been misinterpreted by our troll as trying to find somewhere private where they could tryst. The OP never said in all those times moving back and forth, "I'm not interested, leave me alone." Instead the OP got angry, told him to fuck off and soon after physically threatened the troll.
As I said before, I've had to deal with annoying, unwanted attention from nasty ass men my whole life. It's offensive, but it's not the big drama that it's being made into on this thread by many of you, straight and gay alike. I still assert that this is an issue of the OPs aesthetics and homophobia. If this had been a hot girl and not a old gay guy doing this, he'd instead be posting on here about this awesome blowjob he got in the locker room at the gym and how hot the whole thing was.
I refuse to get up in arms about this because it's just not the big deal that it's being made out to be. Annoying creepy and rude? Yes. Sexual predation and victimization? No way.
Snooz
P.S. Why the hell are two of the four tags on this thread descriptions of the OPs penis? What the hell does his circumcsion status have to do with ANYTHING that this thread is (supposed to be) about? The case just gets stronger and stronger that this whole thing about vanity.
I am going on the assumption that, as usual, the poster picked his own tags.