Logistics and physically possibilities!

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  1. Rugbypup

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    What if, one of you is so big and the other just too tight?

    Forget the whole use lots of lube, fingers, push out, relaxing and take your time stuff, as well as newbies sitting on top...

    What do you do when your partner is so tight, that even after hours of work, you can only just get your end through the front gate so to speak and even then, it's so tight, it completely crushes the life out of your erection? Complete penetration just isn't possible without causing pain.

    Tops out there, would you be pissed off? Do you have any advice to be able to get a larger than most member actually inside your partner without physical damage to either of you?

    Bottoms out there, without daily arse play or the ability to swallow a horse cock without lube, so forgetting all the freakish porn shit, how do you, as an average run of the mill man, take a larger cock?

    Seeking advice, help and the experience of men out there,

    Pup, x.
     
  2. D_GlennFeckless

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    Sounds like a problem of nerves. There are muscles down there, some voluntary, others not so much until properly trained. If you can't get any penetration at all, that tells me that the bottom is just clenching. If you can only get a couple of inches, then the internal sphincter isn't relaxing.

    If, after all this time, he just won't open the door, either have him pursue a meaningful career as a top, or buy him a couple of toys (one your size and one smaller) and lube and tell him to come back when he can take those comfortably. Taking away the pressure of not wanting to disappoint you may just be what he needs to learn to relax. Letting him explore and learn on his own that it's *not* going to hurt and how to control those muscles, in a completely non-judgemental environment (his own bedroom or bathroom) may be all it takes.

    That's how I learned to take the big boys, and have never had a problem or complaint since.
     
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    The internal sphincter isn't relaxing, at all.

    Some penetration is possible but once the outer defense is breached, as it were, there is a tight resistance and if pressure is applied it causes a sharp pain. This doesn't happen with a finger nor toys up to a certain girth, but the particular manhood involved is easily 6" in girth, thicker at the base.

    There was one instance where full penetration was possibly nearly achieved. The inner sphincter was felt to relax but only a little but the tightness of the whole thing crushes an erection that could hammer nails back to flaccid, if not traumatized, lol.

    How does one relax an internal sphincter?
     
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    The inner is built to relax when there's pressure from the inside pushing out. It just takes practice and the right mindset getting it to respond without that pressure.

    I'm surprised nobody has jumped on this thread recommending chemical aids (poppers, alcohol, other). I prefer to be 100% of my right mind when having sex, but I'm sure there are those for whom a little head lightening muscle relaxant works wonders.

    Oh, hell. I'll be there in a jiffie and personally give your ferret a real run. ;-)
     
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    I lusted after a powerful local man for a couple years. Heard he had a temper but I need proof before making judgements. Found through mutual friends the feelings were mutual so we met. First date, met a great location started evening with drinks, then another great location for dinner. Second date great dinner than moved to his home, met a sister, more drinks, without sister made out on sofa than adjourned to bedroom.
    Quickly realized he was a top so I willingly positioned myself as a bottom. I had not bottomed in years even if I was eager. After several attempts for penetration, I sensed his frustration with a bit of temper. I carefully attempted to check the attitude so after some time, I got out of bed, dressed, picked up my keys and left without comment out of my mouth. I have never approached him since in 2-yrs even tho while I was waiting for a date in a restaurant he approached the same time as my date - I heard him utter "I'm sorry things did not ..." I did not hear the finish of his sentence as I walked towards my date with a smile on my face.

    I have sinced bottomed with pleasure, enjoyment and fucked out what little brains I have left with a wide smiles.
     
  6. At.your.cervix

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    OK, I'm straight, but just sometimes it isn't going to fit into your partner without really doing some harm, regardless of all the relaxation and lube in the world. I think lots of guys with overly thick ones have just learned to live with that reality. When that's been the case, I've usually just enjoyed what can be done with a pair of hands and a tongue. There was one girl who I dated for better than half a year that found sex with me always painful, but we pleasured each other without penetration. Not ideal. but still quite nice.
     
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    Never had a desire for gay sex, but I have been with two women who just couldn't. They weren't virgins, but they apparently weren't very experienced either, oh, and both of age. I learned then that their are physical limitations despite one's best efforts. My wife will tell you the same thing now.
     
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    Just relax pup :) Have plenty of time, no distractions. Let him wolf you, and due to your death-grip anus, it should be done on a fresh erection, eg not after your poor wolf has cum 93043 times in 48 hours :) It'll happen. X
     
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    It's probably just psychological. When your mind is ready everything will fit perfectly. Then again maybe the way your plumbing is configured it will never be possible. Had a girlfriend way, way back when. We tried to fuck once, but her pussy was so tight there was no way it would go in. She was really wet and we were having fun, but after we heard my dick crack a couple of times we agreed to stop. She went to a doctor afterwards and was told her hole was just really, really small. She had some sort of operation and after she healed up she wanted to try again, but I had moved on. We still talk. She has told me her husband is on the small size. In the end everything worked out fine.
    As I think about it now I'm not sure there is an operation to help make anal sex easier... Don't hurt yourself, but don't give up either!
     
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