London Guys: Have You Been To Sex Parties?

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I'm considering going to this (Horse Fair – Jamie HP)

My main concerns are:

  • Body image. I'm not confident enough to be naked or wearing "sexy" shorts. I think I look silly
  • Do they reject people at the entrance?
They host other events too and I'm wondering what's the quality of the guests like...

if anybody has been I would appreciate any reviews, I can't find any write ups/detailed descriptions onlin.
 
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I'm considering going to this (Horse Fair – Jamie HP)

My main concerns are:

  • Body image. I'm not confident enough to be naked or wearing "sexy" shorts. I think I look silly
  • Do they reject people at the entrance?
They host other events too and I'm wondering what's the quality of the guests like...

if anybody has been I would appreciate any reviews, I can't find any write ups/detailed descriptions onlin.
If those are your concerns this may not be the party for you. You may want to start with something that’s not as intense as this. It can get a little out of hand depending on the participants.

Just for the record you do have a nice body and a really nice cock. Try a nude beach or somewhere where you can go clothing free. Then take it from there. Cheers......
 
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I agree with Warmsun10. The social dynamics of some sex parties can be really intense and at times brutal when it comes to being rejected in an intimate situation where you're vulnerable.

Also some guys are larger sex parties can be predatory and compete with each other to be the alpha in the room with who fucked the most. Seriously this behaviour is pathetic and surprisingly even the guys you consider to be mature can end up behaving this way.

A good way to get into group sex is to start by having threesomes etc... with regular sex partners and then open it up to new people.

The best advice I can give is to always ensure the guys invited want to fuck everyone involved. Yeah things can change during the action, yet it reduces the chance of awkward interaction.
 
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Thanks guys,

I'm actually OK with being rejected by guys, I was just wondering about being rejected at the door for not being fit enough haha

I have been to clubs where they have play rooms and I never engage but I understand now the predatory/alpha male competition you mention @Asher77 I guess it goes both ways, I recall seeing bottoms that just want to be gang banged and well endowed tops that enjoy the attention of a lot of guys swarming around them.

I've never engaged in anything in public but it's definitely something I want to try (life's too short!) The horse fair seemed interesting... If I dare to go I'll report back, or if someone has been I'd love to hear experiences.
 
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Thanks guys,

I'm actually OK with being rejected by guys, I was just wondering about being rejected at the door for not being fit enough haha

I have been to clubs where they have play rooms and I never engage but I understand now the predatory/alpha male competition you mention @Asher77 I guess it goes both ways, I recall seeing bottoms that just want to be gang banged and well endowed tops that enjoy the attention of a lot of guys swarming around them.

I've never engaged in anything in public but it's definitely something I want to try (life's too short!) The horse fair seemed interesting... If I dare to go I'll report back, or if someone has been I'd love to hear experiences.

It does go both ways and it’s why in these situations if you apply feminist ideas around enthusiastic consent, you’re going to get so many different variables and hypothetical situations. A guy who’s a sex pig and just wants to get pounded isn’t going to want to be asked every step of the way for consent and it would wreck the inter-group dynamics to ask for consent frequently in these situations, especially since most is non verbal consent and playing with someone you think you’re not into usually ends up being amongst the best sexual experiences you have, along with opening your mind to new pleasures, attraction and desires. The best way to navigate consent in these situations is to look for clear non verbal signals that you’re included, ask if you’re not sure and remove yourself from the group if you’re getting resistance or have a gut feeling something isn’t right.
 

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I’ve been numerous times to Jamie HP events but not the Horesfair. They are amazingly hot events and you will only get turned away if you are clearly outside the description of the type of guy they want there. For example the events that are 18-40 age, if you’re a clearly overweight 35 year old your likely to get turned away before a fit/in shape 45 year old with a twinkle in his eye. Not everyone in there has Insta model bodies, but the organisers want regular decent looking guys in good shape otherwise the whole point of the event is lost. With your body and cock, you’ll do just fine at a Jamie HP event.
 
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