Long Distance Relationships

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  1. Pinkpnay77

    Pinkpnay77 New Member

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    Long Distance Relationships

    Everyone has dealt with this issue I'm sure. The insecurities, the brave front, the "omg I missed a call, IM, text,...etc...", time zone difference.

    So here is the thread where people can bitch, rant, rave, share stories, offer advice, promote, or putdown LDR...

    I have yet once again, subjected myself to a LDR. And I'm climbing up walls at this point. (Nympho by nature...sigh...)

    Someone put me out of my misery....

    Or buy me a plane ticket to Scotland...
     
  2. okaycock

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    I know how u feel....I been in that situation and its not easy
     
  3. lonamisa

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    Yeah, when I was younger I did a lot of that, and frankly it ended up being disastrous in the end. It worked for awhile but I don't think I could ever do it again.
     
  4. nudeyorker

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    They can be very nerve wracking, but communication by phone, e-mail and snail mail always help. It is also a big help if you can see each other at least every month or so. It's not the most ideal situation but you can make it work as long as you are both patient, a good sense of humor helps sometimes too!
     
  5. D_Ivana Dickenside

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    it's really difficult and i understand where you're coming from. what i hated the most was being away from the other person because makes you want to be with them even more! but you gotta hang in there, girl. just concentrate on your life outside of the relationship. take advantage of the time you have with other activities.
     
  6. B_New End

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    Been there, done that. We had 4 weeks together out of 1.5 years. Will never do it again.
     
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