Long Penises Versus Thick Penises

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This is more for straight guys to answer. I was talking with my wife and she told me that her sexual sensations are the best with a long penis versus a thick one. In fact, she said too thick is very uncomfortable but that a long one hits "her spot" and that penises about 6" or less would not unless in an uncomfortable position for her. Now possibly she was saying this because of how I am endowed but I really don't think that was the case. She was not a virgin when we met.

So, have any of you experienced the same response with women (either because you do or don't have a long penis)?
 

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This is more for straight guys to answer. I was talking with my wife and she told me that her sexual sensations are the best with a long penis versus a thick one. In fact, she said too thick is very uncomfortable but that a long one hits "her spot" and that penises about 6" or less would not unless in an uncomfortable position for her. Now possibly she was saying this because of how I am endowed but I really don't think that was the case. She was not a virgin when we met.

So, have any of you experienced the same response with women (either because you do or don't have a long penis)?

I have heard directly or through the social grapevine rumour mill that many women push comes to shove believe girth as opposed to length is more important for their sexual pleasure. I have also heard that many are turned on by the visual of a nice long erect cock a Day/or a large swinging dick which is enhanced if it is also on the girthy side as opposed to a slim/pencil size.
I am aware some women have difficulty with too large endowments in either category but they generally are quite ok with average or above. I have yet to hear any draw towards a small skinny penis for sexual pleasure or eye candy arousal. (I doubt if many if any male strippers have tiny flaccid dicks or your average porn star sporting a tiny erection unless it is for some type of humiliation scenario)
Size doesn't necessarily matter when it comes to relationships but it can definitely be a factor in initial attraction and/ or sexual satisfaction with most women I have known. In the course of my many relations with women of a directly physical or purely social context I have found there has been a definite disadvantage for me because I have a small skinny erect size (4" long and just above 4" in girth) but arguably just as much a poor selling point if they see my babysized flaccid penis. They may be aware of the grower not shower thing but mine is so tiny I don't think it is easy to imagine I have a very big erection either.
I know for certain that I have not garnered sexual interest from any women in my social sphere over the years if they were pre aware that I have a very small penis. I have also been with women who I gave a heads up to before getting it on so as to try to avoid the involuntary surprise/ shock when they see how small I actually am. They all said that size didn't matter to them and some suggested that it was ok because they didn't like them too big anyway. Most discovered that too small was not exactly a turn on either especially if I didn't hit the places previous lovers had. Many confessed that they had never been with any guy as small as me. I think the size is often not just a physically stimulating factor but also visually arousing as well.
It is a broad subject with a plethora of experiences and opinions from both female and male perspective. From my perspective and observations I believe women definitely have a preference for either or or both when it comes to length vs girth even if they haven't had physical experience with certain sizes. Mentally they can feel intrigued or fantasize about larger dimensions and opposed to that they may believe size doesn't matter so much until they actually find a smaller specimen doesn't hit the spot.
Finally you cannot discount the fact that skill can potentially compensate for any shortcomings but I don't think I can compete on a level playing field with an equally proficient guy who sports a noticeably bigger penis. I have certainly been put to shame as far the visual stimulation factor goes when I have been directly compared to other guys in the flesh. My over all physique is pretty good but my penis leaves a lot to be desired in the eyes of most females. No matter what their preference is I tick neither box.
 

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Pretty much all women like girth (not speaking for the women here, just saying from my exp) over length.

Length can hit cervixes and hurt women past 7-8”.

Some girls are down with that longer length, and dicks can be positioned, and vaginas can tent and deepen, so it may be a “Your Mileage May Vary” situation, but the money seems to be on fat dicks over long dicks as far as pleasuring women.

Although, that creates a whole other set of problems, too. So... prolly want both!
 

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Pretty much all women like girth (not speaking for the women here, just saying from my exp) over length.

Length can hit cervixes and hurt women past 7-8”.

Some girls are down with that longer length, and dicks can be positioned, and vaginas can tent and deepen, so it may be a “Your Mileage May Vary” situation, but the money seems to be on fat dicks over long dicks as far as pleasuring women.

Although, that creates a whole other set of problems, too. So... prolly want both!
A former girlfriend of mine engaged in a conversation with a female friend about their partners endowment and general sexual prowess.
The other woman praised her BFs impressive girth and was clear that he definitely satisfied her but she did state that she wished he was a bit longer. My gf responded that fortunately she loved me for other reasons because my tiny dick did nothing for her.
I was only aware of this exchange when this woman repulsed my sexual advances after I was single and she had split from her guy.
She gave me a rejection speech I had heard before in one form or another. Apparently she liked me as a friend but she had no interest in that way. I didn't let it go though (alcohol tends to make me a bit annoyingly persistent when trying to chat up women sometimes)
She lost patience with my attempts to sell my virtues and bluntly informed me that she was well aware that I not only have a tiny cock but had it on good authority that I was lost in bed. (She was a bit drunk at the time as well and the next time she saw me she apologised and I in turn did the same for being such a bore)
I surprisingly remained friends with both the women but I did admonish my ex for her honesty. Turns out my ex by her own admission didn't believe size mattered so much until she encountered the difference it could make because mine was way smaller than any guy she had been with. She leaned towards girth over length but admitted too short is too short .
 

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I dated a girl in a sorority and she and her friends literally had long, detailed conversations about how cum would run down their legs in 8 AM morning college classes or while they were walking back to their house. They’d just talk about it in front of me all the time. I miss college, but those convos... bad at times; I had to go to class!
 
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Anyway. I’m pretty long and very fat, or so I’ve been told. I say thicker > longer, but that’s me.


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No woman has ever even tried to use her whole hand on my penis if masturbating me. At most a thumb and 2 fingers is sufficient but only a thumb and a single digit if starting from flaccid as I am absolutely tiny . You look more like a two hand job. I have been a nice size for women who had never tried sucking a cock before and a delight to others who so easily manage to put my whole penis in their mouth.
I kind of tend to disappoint them a bit when I try to fuck them though. They suddenly realize that size does matter.
 
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This is more for straight guys to answer. I was talking with my wife and she told me that her sexual sensations are the best with a long penis versus a thick one. In fact, she said too thick is very uncomfortable but that a long one hits "her spot" and that penises about 6" or less would not unless in an uncomfortable position for her. Now possibly she was saying this because of how I am endowed but I really don't think that was the case. She was not a virgin when we met.

So, have any of you experienced the same response with women (either because you do or don't have a long penis)?
My latest gal had a ex with a very long but i guess average girth (she never mentioned his girth). He wouldn’t stop pounding her cervix as they made love. It hurt her but he ignored her. She loves that i can touch bottom but my fat cock ‘fills her up’ and the first orgasms from vaginal sex in years! I love that she holds her breath when i am putting it in her...
 

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I think my wife would be on the side of length versus girth. I can hit her G spot with my cock and she cums like no one I’ve ever seen. I love seeing her cum like she does anD knowing I fucked her makes me think I have something to do with making her pussy cum like it does.
 

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I am definitely not on the long side but sure I have some girth and, visually, at least to me, make it look shorter than it is but there are a few points which have to be underlined.

You can have 8"/20cm cock but if it doesn't get hard once you stuff that in it is not gonna hit anything...

Women seem to have two separate parameters to evaluate a cock, visual and tactile; I dated a much much younger than me girl, very attractive with a marble body and many men craving her attention, we didn't have sex before a few dates and when it did happen I had an undergoing flu I only later realised but I could tell something was wrong there and then as my performance was not even 50% of my usual. We broke up, we met again a couple years later and with that previous experience I was quite stressed and, again, it didn't work that well. Finally, like a year later, we met again and after a whole day in the sun on an open boat right before getting back to the harbour we started in the middle of the ocean but no visual contact of genital organs, once back and docked we both wanted to continue what we had to interrupt and to escape the surrounding crew's attention we slipped into the boat storage, enough to fit both but low, dark and hot. Long story short after pounding for like half an hour with she below and me on top I had to breathe and cool so I stood up and I was with my upper body off the deck and my lower inside the storage, the light eventually hit me, we were in almost total darkness inside, and then she came to me and said she had to apologise like "I really have to apologise, back then I thought you were small but..." My immediate thought was "what the hell, you can tell a cock size by watching it but not off the friction you have inside you???"

Visually I think it is matter of balance, body size/length/girth, you don't see many big guys/girls in porn, I mean body size, we all know that isn't it? In my case thickness is definitely here but it makes it look unbalanced with length, women side wise they all like it, they like the stretch both with vaginal and oral, anal, which I love, is little different cause not them all are into it and those who are won't easily accomodate girth, some are fine to play with a finger but my girth, not that I am Shane Diesel, won't encourage them to swap finger for cock...

Summary, girth does give pleasure, length, coupled with hardness, can give both pleasure and pain but visually I think matter of balance between the two with my ideal falling at 7.5x6, any recipe to gain that extra inch???
 

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I am both very thick and also a good deal longer than the average guy. Most partners like to be filled up but larger girth puts hard stop on blowjobs and anal sex for most. The length is easy to control for me and it depends on the individual girl as to how far in I jam it.