Long Prelude

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  1. B_gexysind

    B_gexysind New Member

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    I'm a women who likes long prelude,a romantic dinner,some champagne maybe a rose but my boyfriend wants to get straight to action! Anyone have the same problem? If you do how you manage it? And how can let him know what I want without to upset him?
     
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    I've been waiting for some answers but it seems nobody have no suggestions.
    I looked for a suggestive movie with what I want and I found this movie - babes.wantfuckyou.com/A_good_dinner_next_A_good_fuck.html (is not exactly what I want but it's close enough). Maybe you 'll be more inspirated with your answers...
     
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    And of curse an immediate answer it's to leave him, but I'll still let him a chance.... of course not for long


    Send me some ideas until he still have time
     
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    There - fixed.
     
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    IF you make it clear that if he wines & dines you, does all the romantic nonsense etc, he is 100% guaranteed the best sex of his life then I don't see what the problem is. However, if you decide not to fulfil your part of the deal...
     
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    All I'm hearing is, "I'm needy and high maintenance." Shit, you even posted three times in two hours demanding an answer.

    Guys get into relationships so they don't have to put up with that shit anymore.

    There's a difference between being romantic and spending money on you so you put out. One is about how people interact and the other makes you a whore.
     
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    You have to tell him what you want. Do not make him guess. If he really likes you then he'll at least meet you half way. Remember you must meet him halfway too.
     
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    He has to understand what you want and you have to understand what he wants, other than getting into your bed with you. Talk to each other. If he can not give you want you want the ocean is full of more fish.
     
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    I have to mirror an above poster. All I'm hearing is: "I need him to buy me dinner and put on lots of airs and make me feel important every night before I can let him fuck me"

    Maybe that's harsh but if that's what you want every night you're just a fool. If that's what you want once a week then you're still a fool. Once every few weeks is even iffy. Dining and romancing is expensive in every way conceivable. Time and money down the drain for no reason other than to make that little child inside you go "I'm important!"

    Growth theth hellth upth
     
  10. dolfette

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    you sound like a pain in the arse.
    spoiled princess complex.
    wanting a bit of a cuddle & kiss is one thing.
    demanding an expensive date in return for sex is another.
     
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    Have you considered turning the tables around on him, modelling how you would like a romantic evening?

    Make his favourite dinner, put the lights on low, grab a movie he's been dying to see (hopefully one that has a bit of sexual action in it). During those moments, initiate the act. He should catch on that it's more fun when one caters to the other person.
     
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    The main thing is, TELL HIM and if his feelings are hurt by truth, that is good you find that out right away. Tell him first. Then IF he is willing to try, show him what you like by preparing a perfect night for him.

    Put some energy into making things work as you want them to.
     
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    Personally, after a big meal and alcohol, the last thing I want is sex. I feel my sexiest when I'm at my freshest, which is on an empty stomach and 100% sober. Full and bloated is not a good way to get me feeling sexy. Any other men have a similar view?
     
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    I didn't say I want all of that every night but from time to time I need all of that because it makes me feel important.And from the beginning when he was taking me out soon enough it seems that in the last time he forget what I like . I'm not a spoiled girl or a very romantic girl but all of that it makes me feel like a loved women ...:tongue:
    I don't want an expensive dinner but a cookie,a cup of champagne and a rose it doesn't seem to much to me :rolleyes:


     
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    I totally hate it when a man tells me he's a woman. It's such a turn-off.
     
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    There's more to this story....she is talking "relationship"...her boyfriend is thinking "fuck, fuck, fuck" ....... It's time for both to find new partners.
     
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    Yes, I think you are right, and it seems this is the ultimate solution ... because nothing else seems to work
     
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    lol... men!
     
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