I've had several lengthy periods when i didn't cum. First was on a business trip to Europe with another guy. He was a bit younger than me. We were friends and comfortable together. Had to room together for a little over 2 weeks. I was married he was single. We never talked about needing some relief but I know it was on both of our minds. Stayed really busy on the trip and exhausted when we got back to our room and up very early to start the day. I know I didn't cum the whole time and I don't think he did either. Looking back I wish i had brought up the subject and made an arrangement so we could both feel some relief. Got home and spent half a day in bed with the wife and made up for lost time!!
Longest amount of time you have gone without cumming?
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What about jacking off in the shower? Has anyone had to do that to get some relief?
inchesofgold
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One month when working abroad one summer sharing the appartement with 3 and my bedroom with 1 other guy.
It became some sort of challenge to myself at one point: see how long I could manage. Postponing the end goal every time.
I could tell my flaccid dick would be longer and more prominent than normal. Would get jokes and stares from my roommates and random guys at the urinals. Could not wear all shorts I brought with me as my penis was clearly visible in some (regular "loose" fit boxer shorts were in fashion)
When I eventually came, I shot the ceiling down. Texture was lumpy, yellow-ish and smelled really strong.
Took me three orgasms in a row to calm my testicles down a bit.
It became some sort of challenge to myself at one point: see how long I could manage. Postponing the end goal every time.
I could tell my flaccid dick would be longer and more prominent than normal. Would get jokes and stares from my roommates and random guys at the urinals. Could not wear all shorts I brought with me as my penis was clearly visible in some (regular "loose" fit boxer shorts were in fashion)
When I eventually came, I shot the ceiling down. Texture was lumpy, yellow-ish and smelled really strong.
Took me three orgasms in a row to calm my testicles down a bit.
inchesofgold
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I never wank in the shower. It would piss off my cleaning lady, for sure. Warm water & cum don't mix well.
yes i did when i was getting better. and yes i love playing with it, still do as much as poss.
Cum and warm water don't mix well, especially on a hairy chest or beard, though it's easier on smooth skin...
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If this was an examination it would be one that I've never done well in and probably won't ever do well in unless age and deteriorating physical health step into play.
I don't remember ever going beyond ten days. I tried going as long as I could in the past but have given up on trying again because I enjoy wanking and having sex too much.
I don't remember ever going beyond ten days. I tried going as long as I could in the past but have given up on trying again because I enjoy wanking and having sex too much.
i am currently on my 19...month abstinence, it was tough th first few days and i fid myself really horny but also in control of it, kinda like riding a wild stallion
Tessabunni
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Interested in why you've gone so long without cumming...feel like saying what's going on?
I will have a nightfall if I dont ejaculate for 7 days. So yeah, that is my limit. The last time was when I was bed ridden and on the hospital bed. I so thank that the nurse was a male who helped me clean it later.
PS: I was too sick to think of anything sexually
PS: I was too sick to think of anything sexually
about 2 weeks. we were working on conceiving a child, a boy. anyway, the time came, and we went at it. the wife came first, and then I blew a monster load, stayed hard, continued fucking her, she came again, I came again. she remarked that she was full of cum. we fucked the rest of the day. 9 months later we had a baby boy. I blew big loads anyway without abstinence.
I felt bad for this other couple we hung out with. they were trying a year before we were, and it just didn't happen. they finally had a child in the early 90's. about 4 yrs after our youngest was born. we have 3 sons.
I felt bad for this other couple we hung out with. they were trying a year before we were, and it just didn't happen. they finally had a child in the early 90's. about 4 yrs after our youngest was born. we have 3 sons.
Tessabunni
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Anyone interested in chastity cages and letting your lover lock up your cock for fun?
About six and a half weeks. Was a trip abroad for around a month and just somehow never reset the timer.
Sometimes I can go for nearly four weeks or so.
Sometimes I can go for nearly four weeks or so.
About five and a bit weeks. Was a trip abroad and I just never reset the timer somehow.
Sometimes I can also go as long as four weeks.
Sometimes I can also go as long as four weeks.
(Sorry for double — now triple, post. Had to login and it didn't initially show the message being posted. Also checked the date and found it was five over six)
Tessabunni
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I admire your reserve and control. I, personally, start trying to mount the furniture if I'm not 'dealt with' for two weeks.
Due to a toxic combination of stress, grief, anxiety, and exhaustion, I recently went about a month, at which point it happened in my sleep.
Usually it's about a week or so.
Usually it's about a week or so.
Haha! Thanks, I just didn't really feel enough pressure to do it during the time away. Maybe it's the whole experience of going on a long trip that distracts so much from sexual urges for me. But maybe also the idea of secretly jerking in the bathroom whilst on a trip with friends didn't feel right to me. (The two of them even discussed half way through the trip who "reset the timer" by now and they refused to believe I hadn't done it yet)
This is probably how I can go on for a while as well, though with only some stress. Maybe there's low testosterone in me.
Before maybe 2011, I'd use to masturbate every day and eventually my mindset shifted into some meditative manner and I'm less sexually frustrated.
