longest relationship?

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by B_New End, May 11, 2008.

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How long was your longest relationship

  1. less than 6 months

    9 vote(s)
    7.7%
  2. 6 months - year

    9 vote(s)
    7.7%
  3. 1 year - 2 years

    11 vote(s)
    9.4%
  4. 2 years - 4 years

    17 vote(s)
    14.5%
  5. 4 years - 8 years

    25 vote(s)
    21.4%
  6. 8 years - 16 years

    21 vote(s)
    17.9%
  7. 16+ years

    20 vote(s)
    17.1%
  8. on again, off again

    1 vote(s)
    0.9%
  9. one night stand

    1 vote(s)
    0.9%
  10. never had one

    3 vote(s)
    2.6%
  1. B_New End

    B_New End New Member

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    So how long has your longest lasted
     
  2. naughty

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    12 years
     
  3. D_Ivana Dickenside

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    the whole ordeal was about a year. it was strange though... he couldn't handle an official title although he always referred to me as "his girl." never again will i settle for that type of bullshit from another person.
     
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    8 years ;) on and off though lol
     
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    4.5 yrs....and then he decided that he needed a younger lover....and the asshole is now 53....dunno WHAT the fuck he's thinkin!
     
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    I have been married for 37 years....to the same woman.

    It has not been easy for either of us...but as far as I am concerned...the vow I took said for better for worse, til death do us part.
     
  7. justmeincal

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    33 years and counting with my guy. it get's better every year.
     
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    17 years, but that just ended in divorce.
     
  9. Charles Finn

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    1985-1990 for the first one 1997-2003 then 2003-2007 was the last one
     
  10. dont_panic

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    Well I'm only 18 so maybe I shouldn't be voting but nevermind - you asked!
    I've been with my current girlfriend for just over a year and half aswell as being on and off with her for about a year before that. Hopefully it'll add up to something!
     
  11. txnrude

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    currently 15 months and counting
     
  12. SpeX

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    Five and a half years,and most of it was great.
     
  13. Principessa

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    12 years total - 10 years, then we broke up for 4 years and then got back together for 2 years. Yeah re-uniting was stupid. I guess I thought I could settle. I couldn't.

    Sorry to hear that. Do you need a feminine shoulder to cry on? :wink:


    I am right there with you Stacy!
    :cool:
     
  14. D_Ivana Dickenside

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    i hear ya girl!! after all the shit i went through with my ex, i'll never ever settle for less again. he reminds me of how far i've come since i dumped his sorry ass. *snaps fingers*
     
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    17 years here too, ended in divorce.

    Anyone ever heard of the 17 year itch?
     
  16. Principessa

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    It happens in the best of familys these days. A good friend is getting divorced after 23 years of marriage. :frown:
     
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    The Mrs. and I have known each other for 17 years, but we've only been "an item" for the past eight.

    I was never in a relationship previous to now that had any prospects of becoming serious...and they were mostly measured in weeks, with a couple spanning a few months. For the most part, though, I did whatever and whomever I pleased when the mood struck me.
     
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    LOL!!! Love ya, Nick!

    Partner and I have been going 16 years. Not always easy but like the song says "Life's not always beautiful, but it's a beautiful life!"
     
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    thanx!

    sounds cool
     
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