Longest time with no sex ?

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  1. misteraverage

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    I am a 40is year old guy and have been married for years once ( not that long a go) our sex life was awesome now none existant (ho hum) it has been at least 16 months since I enjoyed her pussy I just wondered if there are others out there in a similar situation
     
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    I'm sure it has happened to most guys. It certainly has happened to me. It is unrealistic, in my opinion, to expect the excitement of fucking to last a long time.

    But we all have one handy solution, and that is our own hands! I suspect that most married men jack-off at least as often as they fuck their wives. If we were totally dependent on having "Pussy" in order to get-off, we would all be in a difficult situation.
     
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    very true hands and the internet are very usefull
     
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    18 years without pussy I live
     
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    help me count the years!
     
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    Since I got married almost 24 years ago, the longest time has been about 3 to 4 weeks after the birth of our two children, and 3 weeks when I went overseas on business many years ago. Most recently was Tuesday evening, and we always celebrate the end of the working week with sex. For Sunday afternoon, I have some role-play planned (my wife will be a naughty burglar, who gets caught and will do anything to avoid the police being called).

    Not all marriages become asexual. Or, perhaps, think about marrying a non-Anglo woman (my wife is African).
     
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    Well it has been about 8 years or more with my wife and close to a year with a man for me.
     
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    17 months. And last time I had sex I didn't even cum!
     
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    You're currently married and it's been 16 months since you've had sex together? Is there a reason? Do you need to see couples counseling or something?

    Since I was 18 years old, the longest I've ever gone without sex was 3 months. It's a lot easier for a heterosexual woman. With heterosexual men, all you have to do is just let them have sex with you.
     
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    i was once engaged a guy and we both kinda just forgot to do sex for 6 months. it just didn't occur to either of us.
     
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    I went for a year without while I was in Vietnam. Too many nasty things to catch there. Lately, it has been about a year and a half since my last wife and I split, and I have been doing without.
     
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    i once went 5 years. i was not in a relationship nor was anything interesting on the horizon. i have the ability to, if need be, be perfectly content with crap loads of super happy good fun time alone. however at this current point in my life i have no desire to do without and thankfully i don't haveta.

    i had another few year period too. the first 2/3 of that 3 year period were spent on the last leg of a relationship with a man on mental health meds which caused him to lose erections after about a minute.
     
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    Since I was 20 the longest I've went without is about 1 1/2 years.
     
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    i''ve chosen to be celebate for, think, just over 4 years before.
     
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    Recently I was alone for 1 1/2 years, then later for 9 months. I did some stuff a month ago with an old friend on a trip. When we got home he wanted to buy some of my Viagra for him and his roomie.

    In my 30's, I used religion to escape any relations for about 8 or 9 years.
     
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  18. dolfette

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    telling guys you won't date them because you're celibate is funny beyond words.
     
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