Staring is creepy.
Either take the initiative to talk to him or ignore him
Yes yes, I agree. It can be. I'm gonna try. Maybe just a 'Hey' as I pass by or something. Idk. The thought of it makes me cringe!
Aren't "twink" and "buff" mutually exclusive?
Perhaps the phrase "twunk" would've been better? I've seen that one floating around lately lol
I must admit I sometimes walk around naked and show off a bit when it is crowded. I like it when people stare at me. I take my time to towel off and get dressed. Sometimes I pretend i forgot the soap from the shower area and walk back across the locker room naked. It's one of the small things I enjoy in life lol.
Very Nice, I will look for you.
Well at first I was just going to blow off this post as crap but then I re-read it.
1-First lets clear the air a little why do you think a straight guy wouldnt be flattered if you said hello or more?
2-Now going back to getting up your courage why do you think its so hard?
3-My only concern is you sound a little immature grow a little back bone but be yourself. Hell you might find out that he too is gay and would love to get to know you better.
1- Not that he wouldn't be flattered, but I barely have the gall to say anything in the first place. Perhaps I fear the rejection or maybe him screaming 'get away from me faggot'? lol Or my favorite line from high school 'queer ass bitch' lol
2-Beyond hello, I don't really know what to say? lol I don't really consider myself the most interesting person and I don't want to have that awkward silence moment. Also, see #1 =)
3-Yes, my social maturity is lacking. I've never been someone to make the first move. If you approach me I am more than willing to be friendly, but I have a hard time making the first step. I work in retail and have to greet people all the time and everytime I go to do it, my heart skips a beat. Idk what's wrong with me lol
Ya, I've been in these shoes...and I'm also naive enough to assume that most guys are at the gym to work out, not to get hit on by other guys.
I agree. I don't want to bother them when they're there to work out. But it would be nice to meet someone who obviously has similar goals?