Smaccoms
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Yeah, I'm gonna try to say something. If at the very least 'hi'... although it just seems/feels weird to me to talk to someone i dont know lol. My brain understands that this is how we meet people and get to know them, but everything else in my body shudders at the thought of initiating contact lol. I'm weird*shrug*
Luckily I dont think he showers at the gym, so I've never seen him naked or shirtless. Just is very nice arms and legs and face and....Off track. Dunno if I'd be able to not stare if he were standing in front of me naked lol.
The friend route must've def been a big help. Wish i had an 'in' with him, but i dont. I think what worries me is his reaction to the 'hi'? I'm not a social butterfly in the least. Thinking about it makes me panicky lol
Don't even think about his reaction then. Do NOT psych yourself up like that. Whatever you say just keep it simple. Don't feel as if you have to give a reason for going up and talking to him either. He seems like a cool guy and you wanted to introduce yourself. If you want to lengthen any conversation you have just look for common ground and expand on it. Do not plan responses--that sort of thing is better if you "go with the flow" because your first instinct is usually the best way to go.