Longing for my first action of cock

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  1. jason_x_shaw

    jason_x_shaw New Member

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    Hi

    I am ever so longing for my first action of Cock.:biggrin1:

    I just want to know how did it feel the first time?
    Did it hurt?
    Was it good?
    Did it leave you stinging?
    And what precautions i should take before inserting it in me?

    Thanks:smile:
     
  2. exwhyzee

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    When I was in grad school, I was accepted into an international exchange program that sent me to Canberra, Australia. I decided then I would try my first "real" same sex experience...since it was a way from home, and socially reversible. When I got to Canberra, I learned where the gay areas were in Sydney and planned a weekend there.

    In Sydney, I quickly found Oxford Street, and walked the street to find a good bar. I walked the entire length of the street three times (its a long street!) to find the right place. Some places were all leather, some were too pink...but I found one that looked a bit normal and had an inconspicuous back door. It was the Oxford Hotel (bars in Aus are called hotels). I walked in wearing a white button down shirt, trying to blend in...which is hard to do when the bar is lit with a black light. I looked like a lighthouse, and to make matters worse there was no place to stand along the wall...so I was caught out in the middle of the room for a while. Eventually some guys left, and that freed up some space along the wall, and I positioned myself there...catching the eye of a very cute blond surfer. We eyed each other, back and forth, and eventually he made a move to come talk to me. I was very nervous, and we fumbled through a conversation, until he finally broke free and said "This place is sort of boring, I know a better place to go."

    So I followed him out, across the busy street, and while we were waiting for another light to change, he leaned in to me and said "You're cute, I wanna suck your dick." I picked my jaw up off the sidewalk, and said "That's cool!" He said he knew a place to go, which turned out to be a doorway in a nearby alley...and we went at it. For the first time in my life, I could put my hands all over another guy...up his shirt to feel his torso, and across his jeans, and down his pants. I ripped his jeans open (no underwear!) and dove right in like I knew what I was doing. We kept getting interupted by passersby...and we would quickly yank our pants up and pull our shirts back into place...only to tear it all off again when they passed.

    Eventually he got the message that I wanted to do more (re: everything), and we went to a gay bath house. We pretty much touched on everything there in privacy, stopped, showered, and then started again. It was an amazing experience, not a lot of pain involved...just a lot of fun and pent up energy.

    Later, I learned he was a nurse, so I suppose he knew the procedure a little better than most guys would. Of course, we were safe all the way. My advice: take it slow, be into the guy, make sure he is an amazingly cute surfer-nurse, don't be in an ally, do be in Sydney, be clean, and take all precautions to be safe. Hopefully your first time will be incredible.
     
  3. jason_x_shaw

    jason_x_shaw New Member

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    thanks dude! that sounds hot.
     
  4. exwhyzee

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    No problem, sorry its so anecdotal...
     
  5. WhiteZombie

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    you'll like cock, jason. i do.
     
  6. jason_els

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    Oh man Jason. I am so excited for you. You're about to enter into an amazing world. You will find out so fast why man on man sex has nothing to do with being a faggot and everything to do with confronting and understanding your masculinity in a wildly new and extremely intense way.

    I completely agree with exwhysee. Don't let your dick think for you. Find a guy whose wavelength you're on, someone you're attracted to. If you don't find him that night, then fine, let it go. I would suggest, if you're young, a guy in who is slightly older because he will likely have the experience and patience to make it a great experience for you. Again, be sure there's a serious attraction going on.

    When it comes to sex, let yourself go. When you take his cock, think of what feels really good to you and do it to him. A lot of guys feel like they're giving up something of their masculinity by bottoming or going down on another guy when it's nothing of the sort. The most I can say is that through the whole experience, be proud and happy as fucking hell you're a man and enjoy everything that you can.

    Above all, listen to your conscience, your gut. If you find a guy someplace and talk to him and he looks hot but your gut tells you not to go with him then DO NOT DO IT. Your life may depend on that. I can't emphasize it enough. Do only what you feel comfortable doing, enjoy yourself, and go with your instinct: animal or otherwise.

    The last thing is simple. Bring condoms that fit. For anal you generally want one that's a little snugger than usual but not constricting. Test out a few different sizes to make sure if you're unfamiliar with them. Don't rely on the other guy to have condoms that will fit you; particularly if you're smaller or bigger than average. Don't bother with the ribbed ones.

    Good luck!
     
  7. jason_x_shaw

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    Thanks guys!
    It's been interesting reading your experiences! More replies would be awesome.
     
  8. meNmy9

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    yeah i am quite curious myself... not so much having one inside me just yet but have longed to have a nice one in my mouth... although i do not know any friends who would be willing to try
     
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