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I don't see how anyone can consider anything about the PM in question being private as it was just part of his original post that was resent in a PM. Since it was already public the OP is just outing a spammer.
 

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davidjh7 said:
What I want to know is why he PM's ME?!?!---I sure as hell don;t have a big cock :p I think the lesson is to read people's profiles :D

Maybe he just looked at your pretty face and couldn't help himself? :wink:
 

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davidjh7 said:
you HAVE seen my face, right?:biggrin1:

Oh--and before anybody starts, yes I understand sarchasm, and responded in kind. Hey, why should only everybody ELSE have the fun of making fun of me? :biggrin1:
 

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davidjh7 said:
hehe---and I thank you for it. That second one was for a few others :biggrin1:
Feel free to be friendly anytime :smile:
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I like this guy. I mean davidjh7, not the guy whose actions caused this thread. That guy seems desperately lonely. Not davidjh7.

Oh, nevermind...........
 

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I like this guy. I mean davidjh7, not the guy whose actions caused this thread. That guy seems desperately lonely. Not davidjh7.

Oh, nevermind...........

I like you too. And you're right--I AM desperately lonely :biggrin1:
 

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invisibleman said:
I think you guys are wrong in dogging this guy out. He's just horny, that's all. He PM'd you guys because he's pretty lonely and pretty horny. If he's not your cup of tea, there are better humane ways of doing it than publicly dogging him out on the internet and on this site.

You are right, of course you are. What we should do is hire a plane and get it to do some sky-writing. Much more subtle. :rolleyes:
 

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As soon as he posted, I responded that he might rethink posting his phone number. I did not get one of his PM's. I guess I'm just not good enough. I do get my share of "how big is your cock", "sup", "cam?" "pics?" and then some truly bizarre ones as well. A noob PM'd me with "yea" in the subject line and "nah" in the message. Funny. I also seemed to be a magnet for horny teens when they were openly here. That was icky.

My solution to troll PM'ers is to either ignore them or just be really mean. :biggrin1:

Sometimes I've gotten into situations where I feel baited to reveal personal information. That creeps me out.
 

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Pappy said:
I don't see how anyone can consider anything about the PM in question being private as it was just part of his original post that was resent in a PM. Since it was already public the OP is just outing a spammer.

Well...imagine this. Well what if you wrote someone a PRIVATE message to a person on this website. In that PRIVATE message, you revealed PRIVATE info and/or expressed feelings of a PRIVATE nature. Since you felt that the message you sent wouldn't be THE TOPIC OF A FRIGGIN' THREAD and SHOWN TO ANY AND EVERYBODY IN THE LPSG.ORG FORUM, the receiver of your message would be like "Oh this is harmless...YOU KNOW WHAT I THINK? I THINK THAT I WILL PUT THIS GUY'S PM UP AS A THREAD AND DISCUSS THIS PRIVATE MESSAGE with the sender's PRIVATE INFO. and REVELATIONS WITH EVERYBODY ON LPSG.ORG.

If you are going to do these things like posting people PRIVATE messages, third party observers see that and think I wonder if this guy is going to post my PM's like that? If the guy's an abusive spammer, let Rob, the LPSG Administrator know about it.

This message is for those who received PMs from this guy and called him a "looser" (loser): Because the guy who PM'd you was 50 years old, horny-as-all-heck,
approached via a spam-like manner due to being so friggin' horny, doesn't make him a loser. You can call it unwarranted. You call it an act of desperation. You can call him being severely without social contact. I am not saying go give the guy a mercy fuck either. I am saying that there were better ways of handling this. There are a lot of older men and women on this site. A lot of people (young or old) don't get much human contact to the point of a handshake. People may not be as tactful and respectful. The options are to always strive for that. The people who received a PM, he admired you for whatever reason that was (A BIG PENIS, A PRETTY FACE, ASS or whatever. MAYBE FOR THE BIG PENIS!!! Hehehehe) Declinations can be peaceable too. I have had lots of guys (and women) who were attracted to me and I wasn't towards them, I was very nice in my declinations. I sure didn't put up their personal feelings and information up for the world to see either.
 

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invisibleman said:
Well...imagine this. Well what if you wrote someone a PRIVATE message to a person on this website. In that PRIVATE message, you revealed PRIVATE info and/or expressed feelings of a PRIVATE nature. Since you felt that the message you sent wouldn't be THE TOPIC OF A FRIGGIN' THREAD and SHOWN TO ANY AND EVERYBODY IN THE LPSG.ORG FORUM, the receiver of your message would be like "Oh this is harmless...YOU KNOW WHAT I THINK? I THINK THAT I WILL PUT THIS GUY'S PM UP AS A THREAD AND DISCUSS THIS PRIVATE MESSAGE with the sender's PRIVATE INFO. and REVELATIONS WITH EVERYBODY ON LPSG.ORG.

If you are going to do these things like posting people PRIVATE messages, third party observers see that and think I wonder if this guy is going to post my PM's like that? If the guy's an abusive spammer, let Rob, the LPSG Administrator know about it.

This message is for those who received PMs from this guy and called him a "looser" (loser): Because the guy who PM'd you was 50 years old, horny-as-all-heck,
approached via a spam-like manner due to being so friggin' horny, doesn't make him a loser. You can call it unwarranted. You call it an act of desperation. You can call him being severely without social contact. I am not saying go give the guy a mercy fuck either. I am saying that there were better ways of handling this. There are a lot of older men and women on this site. A lot of people (young or old) don't get much human contact to the point of a handshake. People may not be as tactful and respectful. The options are to always strive for that. The people who received a PM, he admired you for whatever reason that was (A BIG PENIS, A PRETTY FACE, ASS or whatever. MAYBE FOR THE BIG PENIS!!! Hehehehe) Declinations can be peaceable too. I have had lots of guys (and women) who were attracted to me and I wasn't towards them, I was very nice in my declinations. I sure didn't put up their personal feelings and information up for the world to see either.

You are lost in a labyrinth of conjecture. I see no evidence of anyone posting the content of private messages on the boards, or of having any intention to do so. The message was already on the boards from the sender, the question here was merely why he additionally felt the need to spam a squillion inboxes with it.
 

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My, My, My, we really are in a shitty mood aren't we?? If you had bothered to read my post you would have seen the part about his so called PM being part a part of his first post. Now the way that I see it, maybe I have warped vision or something, but anything that has already been posted in a public forum is public even when re-sent in a PM.

Now, like Spladle would say, "Kindly kill yourself".







invisibleman said:
Well...imagine this. Well what if you wrote someone a PRIVATE message to a person on this website. In that PRIVATE message, you revealed PRIVATE info and/or expressed feelings of a PRIVATE nature. Since you felt that the message you sent wouldn't be THE TOPIC OF A FRIGGIN' THREAD and SHOWN TO ANY AND EVERYBODY IN THE LPSG.ORG FORUM, the receiver of your message would be like "Oh this is harmless...YOU KNOW WHAT I THINK? I THINK THAT I WILL PUT THIS GUY'S PM UP AS A THREAD AND DISCUSS THIS PRIVATE MESSAGE with the sender's PRIVATE INFO. and REVELATIONS WITH EVERYBODY ON LPSG.ORG.

If you are going to do these things like posting people PRIVATE messages, third party observers see that and think I wonder if this guy is going to post my PM's like that? If the guy's an abusive spammer, let Rob, the LPSG Administrator know about it.

This message is for those who received PMs from this guy and called him a "looser" (loser): Because the guy who PM'd you was 50 years old, horny-as-all-heck,
approached via a spam-like manner due to being so friggin' horny, doesn't make him a loser. You can call it unwarranted. You call it an act of desperation. You can call him being severely without social contact. I am not saying go give the guy a mercy fuck either. I am saying that there were better ways of handling this. There are a lot of older men and women on this site. A lot of people (young or old) don't get much human contact to the point of a handshake. People may not be as tactful and respectful. The options are to always strive for that. The people who received a PM, he admired you for whatever reason that was (A BIG PENIS, A PRETTY FACE, ASS or whatever. MAYBE FOR THE BIG PENIS!!! Hehehehe) Declinations can be peaceable too. I have had lots of guys (and women) who were attracted to me and I wasn't towards them, I was very nice in my declinations. I sure didn't put up their personal feelings and information up for the world to see either.
 

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invisibleman said:
If he were Colin Ferrell, I bet you wouldn't be doing this to him. I hope that you never ever become 50 Years old and horny like that guy. It can happen to anybody. Count your blessings.
Listen, he could be the Queen of England, and I wouldnt give a shit.

Let me plainly illustrate this to you:


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^Horny PM ..... ^line ............................................ ^His PM

That isn't "just a horny PM", it was just crazy, random crap, poorly written, and totally un-called for, which was sloppily copy & pasted from his original post.

If your idea of giving somebody a horny PM includes such poetry as
i am not a size oriented person but i desire to find a really big cock, i hear all about 14 inchs cocks and if lubed and inserted slowly i know i can make it feel good as i get joy also
Then please never ever PM me.

I guess that is part of the occupational hazard of putting your pics up and/or penis size stats.
Well, excuse the fuck out of me, but I don't have any pics or stats anywhere here or anywhere else.

So, why did he PM me?

It sure as hell wasn't because he felt that we had an intimate relationship.

Well what if you wrote someone a PRIVATE message to a person on this website.
What the hell is private about copy & pasting half of your introduction thread into a PM and sending it to a bunch of people!? It's not like he revealed his inner most anxieties exclusively to me!

I sure didn't put up their personal feelings and information up for the world to see either.
Again, what the hell part of that was personal?!

As you may be able to tell, I'm seetheing at the very suggestion that I would post somebody else's intimate thoughts and feelings or share them with anyone if they held me in confidence.

I called this guy out because he sent this PM to several people, with no prior correspondence, and it was just copy and pasted from his introduction thread. Yes it is a shame when somebody is horny and desperate, but the correct way to garner sympathy from me is not to send me impolite PMs filled with lechery.

If I was interested, I would have contacted him on the thread he made, or via PM after reading his thread. I am not interested, I am not into men 30+ years my senior, I am not even on the same continent as him, so what made him think I would be interested, and what made him decide to PM me beats me.

Words fail me when I try to form an accurate description of my feelings regarding this unsolicited.... quite frankly, filth in my Inbox, and they fail me again when you defend him, and accuse me of spilling his personal feelings across the forum like it was a love struck poem he sent me and only me or something.

I appologise for the tone of this post, but I am extremly annoyed.
 

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alex8 said:
You are lost in a labyrinth of conjecture. I see no evidence of anyone posting the content of private messages on the boards, or of having any intention to do so. The message was already on the boards from the sender, the question here was merely why he additionally felt the need to spam a squillion inboxes with it.

Much agreed. Mass spam of that nature is just freaky. In fact, it is so desperate it almost looks like a set-up.
 

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invisibleman said:
Yeah, it seems that the guy PM'd guys with overly endowed penises (Oh, I forgot this is LPSG.org--The Large Penis Support Group). Yeah, guy didn't have manners. Yeah, the guy didn't have a lot of tact. I think that he was netfishing for cock with the PM's and on other sites. At least, he had to have had some taste for selecting you guys for individual PM's.

I guess if he didn't have manners and tact. You guys in turn didn't either by putting his PM he sent to you in a thread. You could've sent him back his PM and told him you weren't interested. If the guy still didn't respect your space, then you could talk with Rob, LPSG's head honcho, about some better measures.

I guess that is part of the occupational hazard of putting your pics up and/or penis size stats. To people who post their receptions of a sender's PM (PRIVATE messages) PUBLICLY to make an EXAMPLE out of the sender. Not only hurts the sender but the receiver as well. Someone's PRIVATE message sent to you should REMAIN PRIVATE with you and the sender unless they request otherwise.

Unfortunately, he did not send these messages to only people who are overly endowed. He joined the same night I did and as I was trying to get to know some people in the chat room he PM'd me and asked if I had a huge cock and if so if I would call him and come and meet him for lunch. I replied that I was just average and only here to meet new people and chat. He didn't write back so I though that it was over but after about 10 minutes, he wrote back asking if I would fuck him sometime anyways. He obviously did not look at my profile as I list myself as average and I live in Wisconsin which is nowhere near him. I think he's just a creepy old guy who is desperate and sick of trying to find truckers as I saw listed in an earlier post.
 

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Pappy said:
My, My, My, we really are in a shitty mood aren't we?? If you had bothered to read my post you would have seen the part about his so called PM being part a part of his first post. Now the way that I see it, maybe I have warped vision or something, but anything that has already been posted in a public forum is public even when re-sent in a PM.

Now, like Spladle would say, "Kindly kill yourself".

Listen, I am not the enemy here. I wasn't in a shitty mood. No, I will not kill myself. We just agree that we disagree. That's it.

If somebody reprints your PRIVATE MESSAGE and tries to make an example out of you, you'll be the fool. Karma has a way of coming back on you.

Pappy, darling--don't be mad be glad. You know I'm right. It's OK. I am not your enemy.
 

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Invisibleman you are fighting off way too many guys and for what? Why do you defend him? I didn't get one of his PM's, but I'm glad, because I'm a little naive and gullible sometimes. Either you've been there/done that yourself, or maybe you feel for him. Either way I'd stop while I'm behind.
 

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Sometimes we are right and wrong. I think Invisable has a point. What this guy did was inexcusable. And somehow several knew that this pm was sent to multiple people. Probably, best way to handle it was mentioned and that was everyone who received the private message forward it to Rob E.

Perhaps a notice posted that an inappropriate pm from had been sent out to muliple people from this guy and if you received one please forward it to Rob E. The reason I say this is not that outing him was wrong. It wasn't. But it might have been more tasteful handled this way.

However, sometimes something is done that there simply isn't a good way to fix it. This sounds like one of those situatoins. You are damned if you do and you are damned if you don't. Such a notice would have probably brought out the whole LPSG askiing what pm? I didn't get it. What did it say?

Putting the person on the ignore list only fixes the problem for that person. It doesn't stop the guy from sending more pms to other people.

Just forwarding the pm to Rob E. might or might not fix it. It would depend on how many others also forwarded their pms.

My point is that there is no way to make chicken salad out of chicken shit. Debating whether to use mustard or mayo doesn't change the fact that we have shit to deal with.

Each person has to determine the best way to deal with a situation such as this. Every possible solution is full of potential problems.

The good side is that that probably is the last multiple pm that guy will send out. But there will be others to deal with in the future.

Somehow all of us who oppose this inappropriate behavior need to realize we are all on the same side in this. We all agree that the "chicken shit" has to go. As long as it is goes away....let's be thankful.

Let's be thankful that the vast majority of people here have some standards of conduct in senidng pm's that we all agree people should foillow on this site.