Lookie what I have in my inbox...

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SomeGuyOverThere said:
Listen, he could be the Queen of England, and I wouldnt give a shit.

Let me plainly illustrate this to you:


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^Horny PM ..... ^line ............................................ ^His PM

That isn't "just a horny PM", it was just crazy, random crap, poorly written, and totally un-called for, which was sloppily copy & pasted from his original post.

If your idea of giving somebody a horny PM includes such poetry as
Then please never ever PM me.


Well, excuse the fuck out of me, but I don't have any pics or stats anywhere here or anywhere else.

So, why did he PM me?

It sure as hell wasn't because he felt that we had an intimate relationship.


What the hell is private about copy & pasting half of your introduction thread into a PM and sending it to a bunch of people!? It's not like he revealed his inner most anxieties exclusively to me!


Again, what the hell part of that was personal?!

As you may be able to tell, I'm seetheing at the very suggestion that I would post somebody else's intimate thoughts and feelings or share them with anyone if they held me in confidence.

I called this guy out because he sent this PM to several people, with no prior correspondence, and it was just copy and pasted from his introduction thread. Yes it is a shame when somebody is horny and desperate, but the correct way to garner sympathy from me is not to send me impolite PMs filled with lechery.

If I was interested, I would have contacted him on the thread he made, or via PM after reading his thread. I am not interested, I am not into men 30+ years my senior, I am not even on the same continent as him, so what made him think I would be interested, and what made him decide to PM me beats me.

Words fail me when I try to form an accurate description of my feelings regarding this unsolicited.... quite frankly, filth in my Inbox, and they fail me again when you defend him, and accuse me of spilling his personal feelings across the forum like it was a love struck poem he sent me and only me or something.

I appologise for the tone of this post, but I am extremly annoyed.

Well, you know what. I am sorry for making you feel bad. I was trying to say that if you had a problem with that guy sending you the PRIVATE message (even though he sent it PUBLICLY), you send his PM back to him and tell HIM not to PM you again because you are not interested. Tell him if he continues to write you, you will talk to Rob about it. Also, TELL the guy specifically how rude he was to send you a letter like that. Keep copies of your communication as well.
I am not your enemy here. I consider any and everything in that letter personal because it was sent to you (even though the PM guy mass-mailed it to others). I have private messages in my INBOX. I NEVER, NEVER HAVE REPOSTED THEM IN A THREAD. I have much respect for my friends that I have made on here. I have never publicly discussed people's personal stuff in threads.

I don't know why he PM'd you out of a many here on LPSG. I guess this is the Large Penis Support Group. He likes them LARGE. Like I said before. He was out of line. I also said that I wasn't telling you to give him a mercy fuck.

Oh, here's a great example of what I meant by declinations can be nice. Last week, I had started an account with MySpace. They have people that email you requesting to be your friend. Well, one of those requests I refused after checking out the guy's profile and account. He had all sorts of racist and homophobic stuff plastered all over it. He also had vulgar sexual things on there as well. I sent him back a declination e-mail message refusing his
"friendship". I told him that we were very incompatible to be friends and left it at that. No more dealings with him. No problems.

Again, I am not your enemy here. I was saying that you could've handled that better. Keep those PRIVATE MESSAGES private. I have seen five people on this site print somebody's private messages on a thread. Making examples out of people. If you can't see the wrong in that. Wait until someone reposts your PRIVATE MESSAGE publicly. That is equally wrong as being rude.
 

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alex8 said:
You are lost in a labyrinth of conjecture. I see no evidence of anyone posting the content of private messages on the boards, or of having any intention to do so. The message was already on the boards from the sender, the question here was merely why he additionally felt the need to spam a squillion inboxes with it.

I am not lost in anything. I fully aware and clear in my mental capabilities, Alex8. Read post number 1 of this thread , "Lookie what I have in my inbox".
If that isn't reposting a PRIVATE MESSAGE, a guy's phone number and email address. PECKER even Googled the guy's number to find more information on the guy.

I have plenty, plenty messages in my PRIVATE MESSAGE INBOX. I have never, ever betrayed the confidences and intimacies of those PMs in a thread in a manner like this. Even though the PM guy did post it on his own thread, and spammed a shitload of guys of the LPSG. The PM guy was horny no doubt. The PM guy was rude and went overboard manners-wise. Reply to HIM and let HIM know how rude HE was in specific detail to send that letter to you. Tell HIM that you aren't interested in fucking him. Tell HIM that if he continues to contact you that you will take proper measures and contact the proper authorities. Just tell HIM never to contact you.


I don't think that you guys should've reprinted the guy's PRIVATE MESSAGE. If you personally received a PM from him and you didn't like his message, LET HIM KNOW ABOUT IT. LET THE SENDER KNOW ABOUT IT. Send it back to him and let HIM know about your feelings. Better yet, ignore it.

I get unwarranted attention from guys and girls that I'm not attracted to--In real life and in cyberspace. I am honest in telling people that I'm not interested. I talk to them in PRIVATE.
 

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so a while back, i kept getting emails through LPSG from a member (who will go unnamed)
all of them said either exactly, this, or something very similar:
"hey...
how r u?
plz i love you and i want your mail
bye bye "


now, im sorry, but the best way to get my attention is not by telling me you love me before you tell me your name.

in later emails this member said things like "plz. respond. i love you"

um. no.

eventually i had to make it so members cant send me emails anymore.
and that made me sad :(
 

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invisibleman said:
Listen, I am not the enemy here. I wasn't in a shitty mood. No, I will not kill myself. We just agree that we disagree. That's it.

If somebody reprints your PRIVATE MESSAGE and tries to make an example out of you, you'll be the fool. Karma has a way of coming back on you.

Pappy, darling--don't be mad be glad. You know I'm right. It's OK. I am not your enemy.

What part of public don't you understand?? His so called PM was simply a cut and paste of his intro post so it can in no way be classified private!

As for Karma, remember you said it, not me!

And I don't like any miserable little twit like you calling me darling, cause I got your fucking darling between my legs. Now you can either fuck off or eat shit and die, doesn't matter to me.
 

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invisibleman said:
I am not lost in anything. I fully aware and clear in my mental capabilities, Alex8. Read post number 1 of this thread , "Lookie what I have in my inbox".
If that isn't reposting a PRIVATE MESSAGE, a guy's phone number and email address. PECKER even Googled the guy's number to find more information on the guy.

All of the text was already on the thread the guy posted, including his contact details and phone number. The information was already PUBLIC. As everyone else seems to agree. Apart from you, since you have decided to climb aloft a soapbox and spew vitriol over everyone else. Frankly, I think there are plenty of other topics and causes around that it is far more worthwhile to stand on a soapbox about.
 

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Bryan_Lyte2 said:
Invisibleman you are fighting off way too many guys and for what? Why do you defend him? I didn't get one of his PM's, but I'm glad, because I'm a little naive and gullible sometimes. Either you've been there/done that yourself, or maybe you feel for him. Either way I'd stop while I'm behind.

Truth is a multifaceted diamond, Bryan. I am just speaking my mind. I don't mind disagreeing on things. I can hold my own.
Well, I empathize with the older guy. You have to really imagine yourself being that guy. That could be me. That could be you. Sad but true, we will be 50 or older God willing. You don't even know what older people go through. I think that what the PM guy did was out of line. If that guy didn't know it was out of line somebody should tell the PM guy that was out of line--the offended who were sent the PM should sent him back his PM and let him know it was uncool and why. This is the Large Penis Support Group. People aren't on here to buy Girl Scout Cookies or learn how Martha Stewart knits Kevlar with her Bernina Millennium Serger.
I agree that the PM guy was out of line but I also disagree in how this was handled that's all. I am not the enemy here. I don't mind disagreeing. Truth is a multifaceted diamond. Just let my words permeate. Think over them for awhile.
 

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Pappy said:
That ain't no soapbox he's on. That's the box he had to stand on to fuck that cow.

Hey, be nice darling. In Kentucky, they may use soapboxes to fuck you. I can fuck you from here right where I'm standing, thank you. I'll even chip in to buy you some sod to eat, beyotch.
 

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Pappy said:
And I don't like any miserable little twit like you calling me darling, cause I got your fucking darling between my legs. Now you can either fuck off or eat shit and die, doesn't matter to me.

Darling--
You aren't really my type. Kentuckians are notorious for fucking cows on soapboxes, fucking off , dying and eating plenty of shit. As far as what's between your legs is concerned, It really isn't "darling" at all and with your attitude not much "fucking" for you either.
 

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Pappy said:
Sad, sad little man that you are. You are such a loser!!!!PLONK!!!!!!

I know darling. I know. You'll get over it. There are other pastures, other studs to get your soapbox fuck on. Happy Trails, Pappy Darling! Take your fucking cowbell and your milk bucket with you. I told you weren't my type. Sometimes, Kentuckians don't understand English very well either.
 

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Okay ... perhaps I can say it. The sender of this mass message clearly had no thought whatsoever about the people to whom he sent that incomprehensible string of horny trash. It was not a private message -- it was spam, and he further lost any right to privacy when he gave identifying details of himself in such spam.

When you clearly disregard the feelings of others, write an illiterate spam, and publicly send out identifying information, you lose the right to privacy, and gain the expectation of receiving full retaliation. You will note that he hasn't even cared enough to post a SINGLE response on this thread defending himself.

For most PMs, would it deserve a public bashing, even if they were slightly offensive -- no. In this case, the guy deserves what he's getting, and apparently you're the only one who cares, because he sure as hell doesn't.
 

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invisibleman said:
Well...imagine this. Well what if you wrote someone a PRIVATE message to a person on this website. In that PRIVATE message, you revealed PRIVATE info and/or expressed feelings of a PRIVATE nature. Since you felt that the message you sent wouldn't be THE TOPIC OF A FRIGGIN' THREAD and SHOWN TO ANY AND EVERYBODY IN THE LPSG.ORG FORUM, the receiver of your message would be like "Oh this is harmless...YOU KNOW WHAT I THINK? I THINK THAT I WILL PUT THIS GUY'S PM UP AS A THREAD AND DISCUSS THIS PRIVATE MESSAGE with the sender's PRIVATE INFO. and REVELATIONS WITH EVERYBODY ON LPSG.ORG.

If you are going to do these things like posting people PRIVATE messages, third party observers see that and think I wonder if this guy is going to post my PM's like that? If the guy's an abusive spammer, let Rob, the LPSG Administrator know about it.

This message is for those who received PMs from this guy and called him a "looser" (loser): Because the guy who PM'd you was 50 years old, horny-as-all-heck,
approached via a spam-like manner due to being so friggin' horny, doesn't make him a loser. You can call it unwarranted. You call it an act of desperation. You can call him being severely without social contact. I am not saying go give the guy a mercy fuck either. I am saying that there were better ways of handling this. There are a lot of older men and women on this site. A lot of people (young or old) don't get much human contact to the point of a handshake. People may not be as tactful and respectful. The options are to always strive for that. The people who received a PM, he admired you for whatever reason that was (A BIG PENIS, A PRETTY FACE, ASS or whatever. MAYBE FOR THE BIG PENIS!!! Hehehehe) Declinations can be peaceable too. I have had lots of guys (and women) who were attracted to me and I wasn't towards them, I was very nice in my declinations. I sure didn't put up their personal feelings and information up for the world to see either.
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Dear invisibleman,

You won me over to your side.
DUCK!!!!!!!
Now they're REALLY throwing things.

Webster
 

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Webster said:
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Dear invisibleman,

You won me over to your side.
DUCK!!!!!!
:borladuck:
 

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amhersthungboi said:
Okay ... perhaps I can say it. The sender of this mass message clearly had no thought whatsoever about the people to whom he sent that incomprehensible string of horny trash. It was not a private message -- it was spam, and he further lost any right to privacy when he gave identifying details of himself in such spam.

When you clearly disregard the feelings of others, write an illiterate spam, and publicly send out identifying information, you lose the right to privacy, and gain the expectation of receiving full retaliation. You will note that he hasn't even cared enough to post a SINGLE response on this thread defending himself.

For most PMs, would it deserve a public bashing, even if they were slightly offensive -- no. In this case, the guy deserves what he's getting, and apparently you're the only one who cares, because he sure as hell doesn't.

I know that the PM guy had his info up previously. He lost his privacy then by posting info like that on the internet. That's on him.
 

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alex8 said:
All of the text was already on the thread the guy posted, including his contact details and phone number. The information was already PUBLIC. As everyone else seems to agree. Apart from you, since you have decided to climb aloft a soapbox and spew vitriol over everyone else. Frankly, I think there are plenty of other topics and causes around that it is far more worthwhile to stand on a soapbox about.

I agree with what you said about his info being public in the first place. That's on him. That's his damn fault. I agree that the PM guy was wrong in spamming all those people.