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SomeGuyOverThere said:Listen, he could be the Queen of England, and I wouldnt give a shit.
Let me plainly illustrate this to you:
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^Horny PM ..... ^line ............................................ ^His PM
That isn't "just a horny PM", it was just crazy, random crap, poorly written, and totally un-called for, which was sloppily copy & pasted from his original post.
If your idea of giving somebody a horny PM includes such poetry as
Then please never ever PM me.
Well, excuse the fuck out of me, but I don't have any pics or stats anywhere here or anywhere else.
So, why did he PM me?
It sure as hell wasn't because he felt that we had an intimate relationship.
What the hell is private about copy & pasting half of your introduction thread into a PM and sending it to a bunch of people!? It's not like he revealed his inner most anxieties exclusively to me!
Again, what the hell part of that was personal?!
As you may be able to tell, I'm seetheing at the very suggestion that I would post somebody else's intimate thoughts and feelings or share them with anyone if they held me in confidence.
I called this guy out because he sent this PM to several people, with no prior correspondence, and it was just copy and pasted from his introduction thread. Yes it is a shame when somebody is horny and desperate, but the correct way to garner sympathy from me is not to send me impolite PMs filled with lechery.
If I was interested, I would have contacted him on the thread he made, or via PM after reading his thread. I am not interested, I am not into men 30+ years my senior, I am not even on the same continent as him, so what made him think I would be interested, and what made him decide to PM me beats me.
Words fail me when I try to form an accurate description of my feelings regarding this unsolicited.... quite frankly, filth in my Inbox, and they fail me again when you defend him, and accuse me of spilling his personal feelings across the forum like it was a love struck poem he sent me and only me or something.
I appologise for the tone of this post, but I am extremly annoyed.
Well, you know what. I am sorry for making you feel bad. I was trying to say that if you had a problem with that guy sending you the PRIVATE message (even though he sent it PUBLICLY), you send his PM back to him and tell HIM not to PM you again because you are not interested. Tell him if he continues to write you, you will talk to Rob about it. Also, TELL the guy specifically how rude he was to send you a letter like that. Keep copies of your communication as well.
I am not your enemy here. I consider any and everything in that letter personal because it was sent to you (even though the PM guy mass-mailed it to others). I have private messages in my INBOX. I NEVER, NEVER HAVE REPOSTED THEM IN A THREAD. I have much respect for my friends that I have made on here. I have never publicly discussed people's personal stuff in threads.
I don't know why he PM'd you out of a many here on LPSG. I guess this is the Large Penis Support Group. He likes them LARGE. Like I said before. He was out of line. I also said that I wasn't telling you to give him a mercy fuck.
Oh, here's a great example of what I meant by declinations can be nice. Last week, I had started an account with MySpace. They have people that email you requesting to be your friend. Well, one of those requests I refused after checking out the guy's profile and account. He had all sorts of racist and homophobic stuff plastered all over it. He also had vulgar sexual things on there as well. I sent him back a declination e-mail message refusing his
"friendship". I told him that we were very incompatible to be friends and left it at that. No more dealings with him. No problems.
Again, I am not your enemy here. I was saying that you could've handled that better. Keep those PRIVATE MESSAGES private. I have seen five people on this site print somebody's private messages on a thread. Making examples out of people. If you can't see the wrong in that. Wait until someone reposts your PRIVATE MESSAGE publicly. That is equally wrong as being rude.