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So, first off, I'm a gay man and who had experiences with girls when i was a boy. I don't remember it all fully, but it lead to be realize I'm curious as I was turned on by FTM's in my mid 20's, and there was only ever one girl i wanted to make a baby with all sorts of ways. So, i have a kink of pussies that many don't know of. Now, this leads me to the reason I'm making a post.

I finally had the balls to start writing some erotica. it's not pure smut, as they are short stories that Ive just always wanted to type out but always felt i wasn't good enough to do. To my surprise, they've been received well, so i continue. Now, I have some stories that I'm ready to write out, but the problem is..I'm not too well versed with the ways women and/or vagina's reacts to different kind of stimulation and sex.

Obviously, being experienced in many different forms of gay sex, i was able to express different mentalities, turn ons and descriptions of my gay erotic. Now, i have some stories where the men/teen boys, in one way or another, end up either getting a vagina or born with one.

And I'm asking for insight on things that turn women on. for porn, it truly is a reflection of what turn me on and what they like. Yet I know it's different for women. So I would love to hear what gets your going so I can better understand and make my characters more realistic.

Any and all advice, words, thoughts, insights are welcome. Just like I have done with my fellow straight & gay man, nothing is off limits to tell me or taboo. Also, my apologies if I have worded something wrong of offend, as that isn't my goal. I want a better understanding of the excitement, pleasure and release a vagina can feel, the same way I understand the same of a penis. Thank you and have a good day

(aside from the crazy times, i will try my best to answer any and every one. i work full time even during the current covid problems..so please bare with me)
 
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Good on you for following your passion.

I'm not sure what you're asking us for, though.
 

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Good on you for following your passion.

I'm not sure what you're asking us for, though.
thank you, much appreciated. well, what im asking for is....how does the vagina react when getting aroused or horny? is tribadism a real thing lesbians do? do women love to be eaten out in diff ways or styles, and so on. i want to understand a womens perspective on that, so when i write through the eyes of my characters, im keeping it realistic as I can.
 
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Am no into receiving oral, so there's that.. lot o women do, so.. er, am sure most anything -some- women out there may be into..

Far as gettin' down with other possessors of vulva, givin' oral, fingering, strap-on use.. in one case, fisting.....

Fanfiction etc is pretty good place for artistic license
 

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Pat Califia's columns and books amazing. Doc and Fluff ruled my panties for a long time. Doing it for Daddy. Blood & Silver.
 
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I applaud your unique question.

I'd recommend reading anything by Susie Bright or listening to her podcast. She writes about sexuality et al. If you could find some old issues of On Our Backs....

Her website

SUSIEBRIGHT.COM
thank you for the applause and also the recommendation. i will def check into it
 
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Yeah. Get your smut on!

Not being a gay man ever stopped millions of women from writing some crazy hot slash/fanfic ;)
hahaha, im trying to. i like how these stories are of men having a pussy. i just need to know if it would quiver, tremble, soak in juices and so on. even more so, if there was a hymen present. and thanks for the encouragement
 

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So, first off, I'm a gay man and who had experiences with girls when i was a boy. I don't remember it all fully, but it lead to be realize I'm curious as I was turned on by FTM's in my mid 20's, and there was only ever one girl i wanted to make a baby with all sorts of ways. So, i have a kink of pussies that many don't know of. Now, this leads me to the reason I'm making a post.

I finally had the balls to start writing some erotica. it's not pure smut, as they are short stories that Ive just always wanted to type out but always felt i wasn't good enough to do. To my surprise, they've been received well, so i continue. Now, I have some stories that I'm ready to write out, but the problem is..I'm not too well versed with the ways women and/or vagina's reacts to different kind of stimulation and sex.

Obviously, being experienced in many different forms of gay sex, i was able to express different mentalities, turn ons and descriptions of my gay erotic. Now, i have some stories where the men/teen boys, in one way or another, end up either getting a vagina or born with one.

And I'm asking for insight on things that turn women on. for porn, it truly is a reflection of what turn me on and what they like. Yet I know it's different for women. So I would love to hear what gets your going so I can better understand and make my characters more realistic.

Any and all advice, words, thoughts, insights are welcome. Just like I have done with my fellow straight & gay man, nothing is off limits to tell me or taboo. Also, my apologies if I have worded something wrong of offend, as that isn't my goal. I want a better understanding of the excitement, pleasure and release a vagina can feel, the same way I understand the same of a penis. Thank you and have a good day

(aside from the crazy times, i will try my best to answer any and every one. i work full time even during the current covid problems..so please bare with me)

I'll just tell you right off the bat. Be extremely careful with alternate naming of the tingly parts. It is entirely possible for one author to utilize -within one short story- 'vagina' variants as infantile as 'coochie'and as crass as 'cock-tattered goop-slunt' and actually keep the reader (AND keep them aroused).

It is a scary minefield to navigate, especially when juggling naked roosters. In one sentence, pussy sounds pleasing but in the next, repugnant.

I certainly love my new home; truly. I am growing accustomed to actual penises. Cocks! Me!!!! Anyway. I have noted a wider range of ...uncareful euphemism bandying in gay porn. It makes everything feel entirely too immediate. A sprayitallover tone puts the reader front and center -in the splash zone- before a perverted preacher's first-person present sexual soliloquy.

Better you hint at the meat than show off the slaughter.

I love you all,
A G Candelli @}~~~
 

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hahaha, im trying to. i like how these stories are of men having a pussy. i just need to know if it would quiver, tremble, soak in juices and so on. even more so, if there was a hymen present. and thanks for the encouragement
If I had a quivering, trembling pussy, I’d make an appointment with a gynaecologist. And I’d stay away from hymens. Completely. Virgins may or may not have a hymen. And I’d be worried about the age of the person being written about.
 
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If I had a quivering, trembling pussy, I’d make an appointment with a gynaecologist. And I’d stay away from hymens. Completely. Virgins may or may not have a hymen. And I’d be worried about the age of the person being written about.
hahaha, duly noted..and thank you for your words. ive read stories where the vagina would quiver and tremble in orgasm, so i took it as words and figured id ask real women what happens during orgasm.

most of my characters are way older, and one is of legal age that i am going to write about. i figured, if they are virgin, how to deal with a hymen, but ill take what you said into consideration.
 

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I'll just tell you right off the bat. Be extremely careful with alternate naming of the tingly parts. It is entirely possible for one author to utilize -within one short story- 'vagina' variants as infantile as 'coochie'and as crass as 'cock-tattered goop-slunt' and actually keep the reader (AND keep them aroused).

It is a scary minefield to navigate, especially when juggling naked roosters. In one sentence, pussy sounds pleasing but in the next, repugnant.

I certainly love my new home; truly. I am growing accustomed to actual penises. Cocks! Me!!!! Anyway. I have noted a wider range of ...uncareful euphemism bandying in gay porn. It makes everything feel entirely too immediate. A sprayitallover tone puts the reader front and center -in the splash zone- before a perverted preacher's first-person present sexual soliloquy.

Better you hint at the meat than show off the slaughter.

I love you all,
A G Candelli @}~~~
thnak you for your words and time/thoughts too. that is noted(of when to use name of the vagina/pussy) as I have equally done the same for dicks/penis in my stories. during the erotic times, i try to keep it sensual and so good. and outside of that, light and relaxed.

hahahah, yea..the gay porn and erotic, the same words can lead into two very different tunnels easily. so i def understand. its always instant. thats why i love my stories. i refuse to be simple, basic and quick like ALL the ones out there. I write my stories to how i like and how i love to build them up too. once again, thank you
 
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hahaha, duly noted..and thank you for your words. ive read stories where the vagina would quiver and tremble in orgasm, so i took it as words and figured id ask real women what happens during orgasm.

most of my characters are way older, and one is of legal age that i am going to write about. i figured, if they are virgin, how to deal with a hymen, but ill take what you said into consideration.
It’s a pretty sturdy hymen if you can make it to adulthood with that tiny piece of skin intact. Bleeding is pretty common the first time a woman has sex, but it’s not necessarily from a hymen tear, but can be related to micro tears, or even tearing the opening to the vagina. It’s not that pleasant. At least from my experience, and conversations with a few other women.
 

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It’s a pretty sturdy hymen if you can make it to adulthood with that tiny piece of skin intact. Bleeding is pretty common the first time a woman has sex, but it’s not necessarily from a hymen tear, but can be related to micro tears, or even tearing the opening to the vagina. It’s not that pleasant. At least from my experience, and conversations with a few other women.
As one who has bled a tiny bit with every single new partner, it’s definitely microtears.
 

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As one who has bled a tiny bit with every single new partner, it’s definitely microtears.
honestly, thank you a lot for your response. fuckin a..blood doesn't gross me out or what not..i just didnt feel like...writing about it. this helps a lot a lot..appreciate it
 

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thnak you for your words and time/thoughts too. that is noted(of when to use name of the vagina/pussy) as I have equally done the same for dicks/penis in my stories. during the erotic times, i try to keep it sensual and so good. and outside of that, light and relaxed.

hahahah, yea..the gay porn and erotic, the same words can lead into two very different tunnels easily. so i def understand. its always instant. thats why i love my stories. i refuse to be simple, basic and quick like ALL the ones out there. I write my stories to how i like and how i love to build them up too. once again, thank you
I know time can be 'of the essence' when regarding porn. That's what video is for. Need a quick release? 5 minutes of your fave A/V will probably do.

Some of my favorite erotica is the kind through which you can almost lazily stroll, sometimes going back and forth to get proper insight on the character when you know the action is about to get juicy.

I'll often set it down before the curtain opens on that first sexy act. I wait a day and think of what has reaspired
 

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I know time can be 'of the essence' when regarding porn. That's what video is for. Need a quick release? 5 minutes of your fave A/V will probably do.

Some of my favorite erotica is the kind through which you can almost lazily stroll, sometimes going back and forth to get proper insight on the character when you know the action is about to get juicy.

I'll often set it down before the curtain opens on that first sexy act. I wait a day and think of what has reaspired
Gah! *transpired*