Looking at others (perving)

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  1. D_Knobby Bare

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    Do most men even if in a relationship still look at others and do women do the same? Im with y gf (4 years) but still look at other women she knows I do as long as dont make it too obvious, she says if she does look its just at guys in tighter shirts see their body etc. I also peek a bit at her mum as she has huge breasts! I feel bad but I have to have a peek
     
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    I look and its no big deal.

    She looks and its no big deal.

    No problem looking at the menu, its eating from it that gets you in trouble ;)
     
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    ha yes I dont mind her looking, always look at her mum though!
     
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    There is nothing wrong with looking. All guys do it. My dad is in his 60s and still looks.

    A couple of rules. Don't stare. (You may go blind.) Don't get caught looking when you are with someone else. (You may get poked in the eye.)
     
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    I'm sure all guys do it.
    If you're in a MM relationship you can do it together.
     
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    Or if you're a guy in a relationship with a girl who is bi! :cool:
     
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    Yes I look but don't stare and only when on my own. You can look at the menu even if you're having dinner.
     
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    as long as your gf still feels valued and that you are still sexually attracted to her and it doesnt make her to insecure then why not get some binoculars and go to beach. and if your feeling bad for doing it then don't. -you would not keep putting your hand in fire once you figured out it burns you-
     
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    i randomly get whiplash from perving on the passer-bys. the boy is a little more subtle than i am.

    funny enough, we have the same taste in women and usually end up pointing out the maybe-you-missed-her loverlies while roaming the streets.
     
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    It is O-k, dude. It is in our nature that we look at others whether intentionally or unintentionally at other women. For me, I cant help to stare when I see a girl with large tits or butts. But it the choices that we make on how we deal with our attraction,
     
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