Looking for a female perspective - getting a friends with benefits

Discussion in 'Women's Issues' started by B_ILIW, Mar 19, 2010.

  1. B_ILIW

    B_ILIW New Member

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    i'm not looking for dating, i've kind of given up on that lately for the time being.

    but i still have the urges, if you get what i mean. how is the best way to approach a woman for a no strings relationship?
     
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    run up to her wearing a weird mask and flash her

    if she runs away then she's the one.
     
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    The trick is this....fuck em real good the first time and say "im not ready for another relationship yet" When that one stops working find a new one...like you do with cars...
     
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    Honestly you are going to have a hard time getting a woman to agree to friends with benefits and sticking to the plan. For a lot of us if we are having good sex, enjoy the guys company then we automatically want to make it a more permanent arrangement, meaning relationship.
     
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    Find a cougar that's newly divorced and has the same itch as you.
     
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    Be upfront from the beginning, a few women i know have no strings sex.
     
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    All valid points above.

    Even women who want a NSA/FwB situation can get suckered into all those gooey, floaty feelings. In a true fuck buddy situation I have found it works best to:
    A. only see each other for brief fuck fest visits- no dinners, no movies.
    B. space your trysts by about a month or so apart- too often and it gets sappy quick.
    and C. limit the number of times you do it, say 3 to 5 times at most- after that all those endorphins start making for romantic inclinations.

    Recently divorced cougars are a good bet. They are horny, don't want a relationship and are most likely in their sexual peak. Frequently they are open to a lot of sex-ploration too, which is great if you have a bit of kink in you.

    And absolutely, always be honest from the beginning and all the way through!!
     
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