- Joined
- Mar 24, 2008
- Posts
- 16
- Media
- 0
- Likes
- 0
- Points
- 86
- Location
- Escanaba Michigan
- Sexuality
- 100% Straight, 0% Gay
- Gender
- Male
Heres the deal,
I recently moved to another state, got married and started working at a new job. The only "guy" friends I have are co-workers and her family, since all my friends are now 400-500 miles away. Although I like hanging out with the guys at work; I see these guys ALL the time and since I'm a supervisor I feel uncomfortable when I have to discipline them.
I don't go to the Bars (no clubs in this area) and most of the guys I do meet are usually single somewhat annoying. So I'm thinking about putting an add on craigslist for a M4M but as friends ONLY! I'm not bi or curious but often find that single males or even some married males tend to want to compete for "pussy". I have had some great friends over the years and they always tried to get me in trouble and I always had to keep them out of trouble because they always wanted to compete. They would talk about wanting to bang a woman they just say and ask "do you think I should?" or they would say "lets hit the clubs, that brunette looked like she wanted your cock last week"..blah blah blah. They didn't want to be married I can tell but they were my friends and I honestly think I was looking out for thier best interests by stopping them from doing some really stupid shit.
So why a gay guy?
Easy!
The only competition they are more then likely to try and put on me is to convert. I can handle saying no thanks and know they arn't going to call me a "pussy" because I'm not trying to get laid by other people and leave it at that. I had a gay friend in the past that never hit on me and was open about everything under the sun. He was a better friend and more loyal to me then any striaght friend I ever had, so thats why I'm looking for the same.
Basically I'm looking for a guy who's into the same things I'm into but hes gay. I can tell him not to cheat on his boyfriend and he wont call me a pussy because I wont chase women all damn day. Plus it would be great if we stayed friends for a really long time and when I have kids he could be around them so they would understand these things from an early age. He would be available to them during adelosence if they had questions about thier sexuality or needed a "gay" mans oppinion on something. Not many open gay men around this area (almost feel like Im in the 70's up here in the U.P.)
So is it going to work? Would a gay guy checking out craigs list be interested in a straight friend with no strings attached? Or am I putting myself in a dangerous situation that could lead into an altercation or potentially akward situation?
Dregun
I recently moved to another state, got married and started working at a new job. The only "guy" friends I have are co-workers and her family, since all my friends are now 400-500 miles away. Although I like hanging out with the guys at work; I see these guys ALL the time and since I'm a supervisor I feel uncomfortable when I have to discipline them.
I don't go to the Bars (no clubs in this area) and most of the guys I do meet are usually single somewhat annoying. So I'm thinking about putting an add on craigslist for a M4M but as friends ONLY! I'm not bi or curious but often find that single males or even some married males tend to want to compete for "pussy". I have had some great friends over the years and they always tried to get me in trouble and I always had to keep them out of trouble because they always wanted to compete. They would talk about wanting to bang a woman they just say and ask "do you think I should?" or they would say "lets hit the clubs, that brunette looked like she wanted your cock last week"..blah blah blah. They didn't want to be married I can tell but they were my friends and I honestly think I was looking out for thier best interests by stopping them from doing some really stupid shit.
So why a gay guy?
Easy!
The only competition they are more then likely to try and put on me is to convert. I can handle saying no thanks and know they arn't going to call me a "pussy" because I'm not trying to get laid by other people and leave it at that. I had a gay friend in the past that never hit on me and was open about everything under the sun. He was a better friend and more loyal to me then any striaght friend I ever had, so thats why I'm looking for the same.
Basically I'm looking for a guy who's into the same things I'm into but hes gay. I can tell him not to cheat on his boyfriend and he wont call me a pussy because I wont chase women all damn day. Plus it would be great if we stayed friends for a really long time and when I have kids he could be around them so they would understand these things from an early age. He would be available to them during adelosence if they had questions about thier sexuality or needed a "gay" mans oppinion on something. Not many open gay men around this area (almost feel like Im in the 70's up here in the U.P.)
So is it going to work? Would a gay guy checking out craigs list be interested in a straight friend with no strings attached? Or am I putting myself in a dangerous situation that could lead into an altercation or potentially akward situation?
Dregun