I suppose I have seen
Dregun 's post in craigslist that day.
It is somewhere in Ohio or Detroit, I am not sure.
I did interested in that but I am not there for the present.
It is very possible for you to be in an embarrassing situation if you are totally un-interested in male but just for a friend when you posted such a thread in Man4Man in craigslist.
Good luck~
I made sure to post it in the Platonic M4M section and not the regular M4M or Casual Encounters M4M section to avoid confusion <--although I probably would have had a response by now :frown1:
I talked with my Wife about his last night and she didn't have anything encouraging to say. Not that she doesn't want me to have a gay friend, shes all for that but that she hasn't found a decent gay guy in this area since she moved here from California 4 years ago. The only two gay guys she knew where in her words "bitches", one was really self absorbed and the other was just coming out of the closet and was a asshole. So shes 0-2 and I'm 0-0, but I might have been friends with the asshole; we probably would have had more in common then she did with him..but oh-well.
Also I'm a little concerned that the quantity of gay men in this area might be extremely low. My wife and I cruised through craigs lists M4M section and noticed a majority of the posts were from people passing through this area and not many locals listing. This could be good news of course as it might be that the majority of gay men in this area are more reserved and don't post want adds on craigslist but ...I don't know.
I'm going to try and broaden my search area and see if I can find some less then obvious clubs or sports teams that may be gay orientated or at the very least gay friendly. I would hate to resort going to the local adult store and asking if they know of any gay communities or clubs in the area; that would have to be my last resort.
I guess its weird that I would go through all this trouble to find a gay FRIEND as this is usually what people would go through to find a boyfriend/girlfriend type thing. Hell I could find 30-50 gay guys and none of them could end up being good friendship material. Who knows; I might be less scared of them as they are of me.
I'll keep everyone updated with any progress I make.
Dregun