Now this I am unfamiliar with. I have a few friends in the gay community, but they have not told me anything like this and we are all pretty open! What is appealing about a small dick to you guys?
Like jb3 said a small cock can make a bodybuilder look like a classical statue. If his muscles are the main attraction his whole body becomes like a huge penis. At least that's how a gay friend told me it feels to sleep with a huge muscle dude because the whole body has the pumped, smooth, firm, yet flexible feel of a stiff cock. He said his lover had a small dick but it didn't bother either of them. My friend got off on the whole package.
I'd love to meet a huge muscle bottom, the small dick wouldn't bother me, I just wanna get between those buns.
On the other hand, I've seen muscle worship videos where the bodybuilder has a huge hung dick - that works better for me in a "cock worship" or "muscle worship" scenario where the guy is a dominant top to be serviced. Ideally I'd wanna deep throat him. I once had a guy like this (who said he was straight at the time) face fuck me - he was thick and about 9" - he said he'd never been able to do that before and was quite pleasantly surprised.
It's fine if a muscle dude has a big dick, but I agree it can be distracting from the proportions of the whole body.
Boatnik you would fit the classical statue concept perfectly. Not to say your cock is small - it's just nicely proportioned with your body.
Ironaddict69 your huge mass and beautiful 7.5" girth would qualify you in the "Muscle Worship/Cock Worship" category. Plus your whole charisma would suit the "Dominant Top" role. [I know you're straight but this is a hypothetical if you would excuse me! OK?]
I also just like hanging around muscle guys, irrespective of what's in their underpants.