Looking for Something Other Than Porn

[Lover3649]

A friend recently asked if I have a porn addiction, and I feel like I might. It’s less of a dependency on it, though, and more of the fact that porn was my introduction to sexual experiences, and I’ve somewhat naively never really thought about having one without it.

My thought to combat it is to try branching out sexually and stimulate my imagination or whatever. Any recommendations of things to try that are not just a new photo/video? My only experience is jacking myself off (amab), I’ve never tried any toys or other positions and I haven’t had a sexual partner yet (not rushing it, but I would like to make that happen). Any other solo sex things people would recommend? I’m open to any suggestions!

 

[LPSG Simon]

Try switching to lit-erotica. Written word gives you wayyyy more imagination workout, and you get the satisfaction that you're keeping up your cognitive skills by reading. Especially if it's actual books on paper.

 

[Zurichoise]

try doing it in front of a mirror imagining what someone could do to you….

 

[Zurichoise]

or make yourself comfortable and explore your body a bit more. give yourself some time before you start masturbating. touch your arms or legs, balls etc. imagine how you would like to be touched by someone else. maybe that helps starting your own mind porn.
plus it doesn’t hurt to know your body better for future encounters with other ppl

 

[prelcum69]

Try switching to lit-erotica. Written word gives you wayyyy more imagination workout, and you get the satisfaction that you're keeping up your cognitive skills by reading. Especially if it's actual books on paper.

Yeah agreed this is a great way to get out of porn 24/7

 

[BrettsBost]

Try switching to lit-erotica. Written word gives you wayyyy more imagination workout, and you get the satisfaction that you're keeping up your cognitive skills by reading. Especially if it's actual books on paper.

Agreed! Just started following this new author and love his stuff. He focuses on dominant, successful older men and younger partners. Hot and well written. I found him after one of his stories was featured on this gay erotica podcast I listen to. Link to his story here.