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Except that I often see people as worthless and presumed others may share similar feelings to such people they know of?

Well, we all have shitty thoughts that rise and fall in our awareness ... and don't say anything important about other people or even (and this is harder to see) about our selves.
It's just our mind spewing.
Means absolutely nothing.
But do you sometimes see a lot of good qualities in other people?
I assume you do.
So why wouldn't others see such qualities in you?
The feedback you've been getting on the board would suggest they do.
 

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I saw a huge-dicked UGLY man in the showerroom flaunting his hardon in front of a kid adout 12-13. Not good.

A fairly homely young man (18) who had a huge one used to get plenty of action, but I never tried since he was a one-wayer on blow jobs (I like reciprocation).

A fairly handsome black friend (I know - race is not an issue) of mine has a huge one and we have enjoyed eachother much since our twenties. A very nice guy, very intellegent, but not perfect.

Big dicks occur on every type of personality, physique, and mental make-up, well, excluding women, lol. So do other sizes.
 

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I would have been a big rugby fan and player if I had my dad around, I've always thought that but unfortunately he was never there to reinforce my interest in sports and so I let it drift by and now I just watch it when he does and even then I can't maintain any interest just like with everything else in my life, minus LPSG.
 

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I started this thread knowing I look apparently hot and hung, I don't feel it though, I feel ugly and little today. I realised yesterday that I really don't like myself and now I'm not sure how much I like my new therapist.

That's because basing self-esteem on things that were given to us by nature (or God if you like) is foolish. Any sensible person realizes that these things were not obtained by their own doing. Self-esteem is more lasting if it is supported by progress and self-improvement. One of the things that seperates us from the rest of the animal kingdom is our desire to get better at whatever it is we choose to do.
 

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Having no motivation is a major problem of mine right now, A lesser of two evils when I look back at the shit I had to deal with before medication.

Do you have the motivation to progress in any area?

If you don't mind, what medication do you take? And what psychological condition is it that you are attempting to treat?
 

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Major depressive disorder and I'm on Duloxetine, previous medication has not altered my mood in any way, Duloxetine has chilled me out way too much.

I have many symptoms of Asperger's Syndrome and my Therapist is looking in to it, I've only seen her once and I will be seeing her again on tuesday. She wanted me to see my GP and ask for a lower dosage because 60mg is too high but I've been told that there isn't a lower dosage and the tablet cannot be broken up because it's a capsule.

When depressed, I had all the motivation I could ever need because I had unending focus on my special interests so to speak from AS maybe. So I was always ahead in college work but I havn't touched course work in over 6 weeks. It's this swing in motivation that made my doctor tell me I was obsessive and that the medication had effected me in totally the opposite way to normal. I then looked up OCD and knew I hadn't got it but then came acroos AS and was really suprised.
 

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Major depressive disorder and I'm on Duloxetine, previous medication has not altered my mood in any way, Duloxetine has chilled me out way too much.

I have many symptoms of Asperger's Syndrome and my Therapist is looking in to it, I've only seen her once and I will be seeing her again on tuesday. She wanted me to see my GP and ask for a lower dosage because 60mg is too high but I've been told that there isn't a lower dosage and the tablet cannot be broken up because it's a capsule.

When depressed, I had all the motivation I could ever need because I had unending focus on my special interests so to speak from AS maybe. So I was always ahead in college work but I havn't touched course work in over 6 weeks. It's this swing in motivation that made my doctor tell me I was obsessive and that the medication had effected me in totally the opposite way to normal. I then looked up OCD and knew I hadn't got it but then came acroos AS and was really suprised.

My gf in highschool had bipolar disorder. She was incredibly sharp and enthusiastic. But when they gave her lithium to contoll her disorder it made her dull and listless. I hear that they have better treatments now.

One of my friends is a psychologist. I will ask her about your treatment and get her feedback.

Have you considered a wholistic approach as well? They usually take longer but are more beneficial in the long run.