At.your.cervix
Superior Member
Is it sick to jerk off to porn of people who look like minors? That depends. If it's because you have uncontrolable desires to have sex with children--of course, and please seek help ASAP.
The Lupe girl in the pictures looks an awful lot like my first (absolutely wonderful) love in highschool, to be honest, looking at the website you provided did bring back some very wonderful erotic memories. I didn't jerk off, but it did create a bit of physiological change in my pants. If I'm a pervert for being somewhat aroused looking at images of someone closely resembling my first love, I'm sorry, but I have no guilt. If a woman checking out the pictures in this website sees a young man's penis, and it reminded her of her high school lover, who would assign the label of "being sick" to her? It all has to do with the motivations behind and desires unleashed looking at erotica. For me, I just thought back to some wonderful intimate times shared many years ago. Erotica can do that, you know.
Of course, looking at real kiddie porn, where children are being exploited in the making of it, is being a partner in the crime, but that's not what was going on here.
We need to be careful of being judgemental about what turns us on--one could easily make the case that having an interest in the male (large) sex organ, instead of 24/7 retaining the focus on the person attached to it is sick. One of my best friends is an orthopedic surgeon who pays to see a dominatrix regularly. Not at all my cup of tea, as I'm always uncomfortable in any sort of situation where one party exerts dominance over someone who becomes submissive. But for my friend, he says it is a brief respite from having to make incessant decisions where people's lives are at stake--being ordered about for an hour a week gives him relief. Should I call him "sick?"
Our desires are. They are a part of us, whether or not we want them to be. The sickness or healthiness of them depend on how we integrate them into our lives. Do they enhance our lives and those around us? Then there is no problem. Are they destructive to ourselves or others, then there's where the problem lies.
In affairs of the head and of the heart, one-size-fits-all approaches work even less well than one-size-fits-all condoms.
The Lupe girl in the pictures looks an awful lot like my first (absolutely wonderful) love in highschool, to be honest, looking at the website you provided did bring back some very wonderful erotic memories. I didn't jerk off, but it did create a bit of physiological change in my pants. If I'm a pervert for being somewhat aroused looking at images of someone closely resembling my first love, I'm sorry, but I have no guilt. If a woman checking out the pictures in this website sees a young man's penis, and it reminded her of her high school lover, who would assign the label of "being sick" to her? It all has to do with the motivations behind and desires unleashed looking at erotica. For me, I just thought back to some wonderful intimate times shared many years ago. Erotica can do that, you know.
Of course, looking at real kiddie porn, where children are being exploited in the making of it, is being a partner in the crime, but that's not what was going on here.
We need to be careful of being judgemental about what turns us on--one could easily make the case that having an interest in the male (large) sex organ, instead of 24/7 retaining the focus on the person attached to it is sick. One of my best friends is an orthopedic surgeon who pays to see a dominatrix regularly. Not at all my cup of tea, as I'm always uncomfortable in any sort of situation where one party exerts dominance over someone who becomes submissive. But for my friend, he says it is a brief respite from having to make incessant decisions where people's lives are at stake--being ordered about for an hour a week gives him relief. Should I call him "sick?"
Our desires are. They are a part of us, whether or not we want them to be. The sickness or healthiness of them depend on how we integrate them into our lives. Do they enhance our lives and those around us? Then there is no problem. Are they destructive to ourselves or others, then there's where the problem lies.
In affairs of the head and of the heart, one-size-fits-all approaches work even less well than one-size-fits-all condoms.
