losing a relationship by introducing a toy

GS_PL

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I am in the boat of terminal regret to have introduced a porn star sized dildo to a relationship. What ended up happening is my partner, who relentlessly complained of my cock size (both to my face as well as on social media which I didn't have then), simply decided that there are real people out there who have cocks the size of the toys we play with, so why bother wasting time being miserable with me? He's been married to a violent, abusive person with a third leg for quite some time now.

He had a cock already substantially larger than my own, but wanted more for himself. He wanted me to get penile implant surgery, and I absolutely refused. He had the procedure done, and dumped me very shortly thereafter. While cosmetically it looked amazing, physically he could no longer get as fully erect as before. A MAJOR reason that is not something I will ever consider. Same with hair loss products. They can do wonders for having a fuller head of hair, but the adverse effect is a slowed ejaculation. No thanks. I'll be bald up top and shoot to the moon, thanks.

Having a birthday coming up soon, and this will now be my eighth one alone - I was dumped on the same day of the Pulse nightclub shooting, so I'll likely never cry as much as I did on that day / night.
 
Hey. I hear you. It really isn't okay that this person belittled you for your body... The person you're with should lift you up. Whether you know it or not, it sounds like you're better off without his voice in your head telling you that you're not enough.