Losing an erection in between

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  1. douchenbaggin

    douchenbaggin New Member

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    Lately, it seems I'm losing the erection between the fondling and what not.

    What I mean is, I'll be rock hard when we're first fooling around and it'll be my turn to please her, by the time she gets back to me I'm getting soft again.
    She said it's not a big deal, but its frustrating to me because I don't remember being like that.

    I've noticed it to when jerking off. I'm 19 years old and feel like it should be constantly hard like it used to be. But maybe that's me getting older? But I still feel I'm too young. I also quit working out as much down to "Every now and then" which I used to go 3 or 4 days a week. religiously.

    Could the lack of exercise be a culprit as well or is this just normal and I'm freaking out? I've started my normal work out regimen back up.
     
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    Not knowing you, I would wonder about boredom and routine rather than a physical reason. Or ... some relationship problem that's getting in the way. But you know the situation, I don't.

    In any event, it's really normal for most guys (even in their teens) to do some going up and going down and going back up again during sex.
     
  3. D_Harry_Handful

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    You're 19, so it's likely not because of aging. It could be medication, depression, diet, lack of exercise, lack of sleep, you're having sex/masturbating too much (and it's wearing your pal out), it could be lots of things. Look at your lifestyle when your wang worked, and see what's different now. Lots of people have great sex and don't work out, but it could still be an issue of circulation. Do some reading.
     
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    he douchenbaggin,

    How life, it must be the age, you re getting old, ha ha, no serious, it can be alcohol or so, otherwise, try viagra and see what happens.

    Like to hear from you again

    Marcus
     
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    I think it happens to many if not most men ... no matter what age. It's primarily psychological: once it happens, for whatever reason (too tired, not enough stimulation, etc.) then performance anxiety sets in . Even subconsciencely, those thoughts of "will it happen again," and "what does she think," and "will it stay soft this time" block out the pleasures of the moment. Relax. Let the fun of getting it rock hard again (and maybe two or three times) get you and your partner even more horny.
     
  6. douchenbaggin

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    Well the difference is, I'm with this girl now who's been like my best friend for a long time. We've always had chemistry and amazing amount of attraction. Everyone noticed before when we were friends.

    We have amazing sex ALL the time. Maybe thats it. We have sex a lot and its usually in the wee hours. from like 2am-5am.

    I've got school and work and between those two and fucking her constantly, there's no time for sleep. There's not a single problem between us nor is it me getting bored. It happens even when I'm masturbating.

    I would assume lack of sleep, because afterwards fucking her, we both feel so terribly drained and then get very little sleep. I'm an early bird and not a nap person, so when I miss out on sleep, I keep trucking.
     
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    Well, I'll bet the issue is that you are having way too much sex, which is something you just have to enjoy. Deeply!
     
  8. douchenbaggin

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    That would be true, because before I was getting little to no action -_-

    And especially when the sex is amazing and draining, I think my dick needs a vacation for like a week. But...eff that lol
     
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    Yeah, teach that dick of yours who's boss: OK, guy, you're trying to take a break, but GO BACK OUT THERE AND GET HARD AND PENETRATE SOMETHING!
     
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    I think you need to relax and just enjoy the feeling of sex all over your body and through your head. What I find is the dick is there when I need and if its not, don't worry, even as a teenager sex is so much more than penetration.

    Relax and enjoy!
     
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    Sounds to me like you're not getting enough sleep. That will affect you more than you think it will, even at age 19. I'm will to bet that if you started getting 7-9 hours of sleep per night on a regular basis that you'll feel a lot better during the day, as well as improving your sexual performance.
     
  12. douchenbaggin

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    I'd have to agree with everyones answers, relaxing and proper sleep is what I need.
     
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