Anyone ever had this problem? Last night I was making out with a girl and completely hard for hours. Then clothes came off and I was afraid of what she might think about my body and I was not as hard so I hesitated. I got over it and she gave me a blowjob and we started having sex but I quickly lost my erection. And it would not come back. it was my second time having sex it bothers me because I feel like I should have been aroused, but I wasn't. I had not drank in 2 hours. I was feeling slightly guilty because this other girl I lost my V card to last week had wanted to hang out last night. Part of me wonders if I am just not turned on by women...cause none of my straight friends can recall fucking and then losing their erections while having sex. They can recall not being able to get hard in the first place, but not actually having sex and then having an epic fail. I was turned on before clothes came off. I was turned on by touching her body. I was turned on by her thighs and the warmth betwen her legs. I think was scared and guilty because this girl was better looking then the first girl.. So now I am unhappy because the girl form last night is not going to be eager to see me again. She wanted me so bad and I told her I was going to fuck her so hard and then I failed epicly. :frown1: Anyone ever lost an erection while having sex? What were the details surrounding the situation?