My issue was discussed somewhat in this thread, but I wanted to take it a step further. Last night, I hooked up with a hot babe that I had lusted after for the past few weeks. When she got naked and I disrobed, I was rock hard and stayed that way during the foreplay. Then when the condom was slipped on and we went at it, I progressively grew soft as we changed positions. I had to finish off by stroking myself to orgasm, which took awhile and with less of an erection than what I started with. Note that I don't take meds, am in really good health for my age, am not overweight, eat healthy, take vitamins (and L-Arginine) and exercise semi-regularly. The hangups about "wanting to please her" do apply to me somewhat, but I don't allow them to completely detract from my desire for pleasure. This problem has happened a lot recently and I'm starting to suspect that the condom is having a constricting effect on Mr. Happy. I'm not necessarily Magnum size, but I am a tad thick in girth and have a bit of a curve. I've used Trojans mostly, and will soon try Kimonos and Life Styles Sheer Pleasure as alternatives. Also want to try Crown, but those are harder to find retail. Is is really the condom that's choking the life out of me, or does it not even matter? Appreciate the feedback.