Losing interest in the middle of sex

[Gecko4lif]

Have you done it?

If so why?

 

[monel]

What's your story, Gecko?

 

[earllogjam]

Yes, usually BO, bad breath or shit. Sometimes the chemistry just ain't right.

 

[D_Sal_Manilla]

well there was this one time when my ex was trying too hard and i got bored so while he was screwing me, I started watching tv... I know thats wrong but I was over him by that point.

 

[hardboy69]

well i guess the sex was shit, it happens for male and female

 

[D_Phil_Doneafew]

Oh yeah. When its just horrible but you love the guy you just go with it however off his game he is.

Where's that blinky pen thing from men in black...

 

[Solvejg]

This happens a lot for me. I just start going..... "meh ok whatever". A few times i have found myself even drifting off. I love it and find it fun. In fact it is my fav thing but I have bad attention span and my mind wanders off. The amount of times I have started doing maths in my head is crazy. I like rough sex because usually a good slap in my face brings me back. It isn't a boredom thing, it is purely my mind wanders.

 

[rtg]

I think this is normal at times...sometimes you just aren't too into it at the beginning so lose interest throughout..yeah and like others said...if they are trying too hard, or if the chemistry isn't there. There's loads of reasons really. Sometimes it just doesn't feel good either lol.

 

[closetfreak]

It happens. Some people really just aren't good at sex and it gets boring or no longer enjoyable

 

[macho8]

yes.. combination of small dick and no skill... sad to say.

 

[D_Fiona_Farvel]

If falling asleep counts? Yes. :08: (only happened once, but still)

 

[D_Dick_S_Lapp]

Yeah but it wasn't because of boredom. Pain was the problem. Not the good pain either. Sometimes things either get a little too hot an heavy or negative emotions get dragged into it. Sucks, but it happens.

 

[Phillygrower]

This has happened a couple times with me and my wife. I normally get off after she does. Seeing her cum gets me all revved up. When she has a problem cumming than I can't cum. She might think I'm close so she tries too hard to hurry up and then can't go cause she put pressure on herself. Then seeing her having a hard time affects me.

 

[redbear52]

Yes a couple of times when my partner initiated sex and my head was elsewhere. I realized I wasn't going to orgasm (which I don't consider a reason to stop) but it seemed she really wasn't into it that much either. I usually just said "maybe it would be better if we tried this later".

 

[RawDog]

If falling asleep counts? Yes. :08: (only happened once, but still)

Does it count if both are drunk/stoned and fall asleep, me hard as a rock and she pretty much soaking wet around my cock dripping down my balls, clamped on for dear life? Yeah, pot gives me instant morningwood (as in, I pass out with an erection stiffer than rebar).

This has happened a couple times with me and my wife. I normally get off after she does. Seeing her cum gets me all revved up. When she has a problem cumming than I can't cum. She might think I'm close so she tries too hard to hurry up and then can't go cause she put pressure on herself. Then seeing her having a hard time affects me.

Ugh, that's happened to me too. I wouldn't call that losing interest though, more like being overly concerned.

 

[Phillygrower]

Yeah, pot gives me instant morningwood (as in, I pass out with an erection stiffer than rebar).

After I smoke I get horny as hell. Plus I'm beyond rock hard to the point it almost hurts. And I can last real real long. Love it.

 

[RawDog]

Yeah, pot gives me instant morningwood (as in, I pass out with an erection stiffer than rebar).

After I smoke I get horny as hell. Plus I'm beyond rock hard to the point it almost hurts. And I can last real real long. Love it.

You have got to check out this thread then:

http://www.lpsg.org/244282-genital-snuggling.html

 

[B_625girth]

that's kinda where I am at after marriage of 33 yrs. the wife has gotten pretty chunky (fat) over the last few yrs. it's a physical turn off. she has told me we are too old for sex. I told her maybe she is, I'm not. I have mild ED. I get hard, not rock hard. but I got Viagra. I got Cialis. every once in awhile she'll want me to fuck her. I'll mount her, and start pushing. it's not easy, her belly is in the way, and she likes me deep in her, and that is very difficult to do. i do my best, but if I think about it, or get a mental picture in my head of what I'm doing, I'll start to lose my erection and I just get off her. it's sad, cuz she was smoking hot at one time, gave me 3 kids and still looked good, and then at some point said fuck it. it's sad cuz we had great sex for years. it was an "area" we never had any problems in, we were damn good at it. she tells me she's going back on weight watchers and that's as close as she comes to that. I think she just says that anymore thinking that she is fooling me/appeasing me some how. she eats fast food at least once a day, no exercise, doesn't follow Dr's orders.

Personally, I'm not really convinced I have an ED problem. I think I have a fat wife problem and I'm not turned on. I know a lot of people, some of them women, and a few flirt with me. some more than others. and altho I remain faithful to my wife, I have had some gals hug me, even kiss me after a fun evening of just hanging out, having a few drinks, and my cock jumps to full rigidity.

 

[715636]

yep .. just couldnt be arsed, angry at the time haha

 

[Thirdlegproduction]

1. I was drunk and been fucking for over an hour desperately trying to cum.
Wasn't happening so I stopped.

2. She told me she had sex with me out of fear I wouldn't love her anymore.
I quit immediately and said we're not having sex untill you want to out of pleasure.