Losing Interest

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I've been with my partner for a few years now and I feel like I am starting to lose interest. I feel we do not have as much in common as we should and just do not feel as satisfied anymore. We tend to argue about the most stupid of things and just feel like I am walking on egg shells sometimes. Any advice?
 

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Just talk to your partner and let him know how you feel. At this point, you are already talking about giving up, so what do you have to lose? Let him know you aren't happy, you feel like it might be over, you are having issues with XYZ (whatever you want to mention), or you are ready to move on. The biggest thing you need to do is be totally honest and when he speaks, be very open and really listen and hear what he says. Maybe he is having the same issues. Maybe he wants something different.

Good luck.