Losing my virginity to older men

[mottshotts]

So, I won’t disclose my actual age, but i’m under 21, and I really want to lose my virginity to an older guy. I have trouble finding myself attracted to guys my age, and I feel like with the experience an older guy would have, I could really have a great time given I find the right guy. My only issue is that I have never kissed or been in a relationship with a guy, and I don’t want to feel like i’m “tainted” when I do get myself involved in the dating scope. I understand that many older men simply want to just take advantage of me, but I also know there are others that truly do care, and want to give me a pleasurable and memorable first experience.

 

[theplayerking]

So, I won’t disclose my actual age, but i’m under 21, and I really want to lose my virginity to an older guy. I have trouble finding myself attracted to guys my age, and I feel like with the experience an older guy would have, I could really have a great time given I find the right guy. My only issue is that I have never kissed or been in a relationship with a guy, and I don’t want to feel like i’m “tainted” when I do get myself involved in the dating scope. I understand that many older men simply want to just take advantage of me, but I also know there are others that truly do care, and want to give me a pleasurable and memorable first experience.

Many guys lose their virginity to an older man. It’s common and natural. If that’s what turns you on, you should go for it. However, your post is unclear about whether you’re looking for a hook up or a relationship. Some guys lose their virginity in their first relationship, but I think they’re in the minority. Guys are horny and hook ups are so easy. There’s nothing wrong in waiting, but if you wanna play casually now, I wouldn’t worry about being “tainted.” That’s a heteronormative distinction that the vast majority of gay men don’t care about.

 

[mottshotts]

Many guys lose their virginity to an older man. It’s common and natural. If that’s what turns you on, you should go for it. However, your post is unclear about whether you’re looking for a hook up or a relationship. Some guys lose their virginity in their first relationship, but I think they’re in the minority. Guys are horny and hook ups are so easy. There’s nothing wrong in waiting, but if you wanna play casually now, I wouldn’t worry about being “tainted.” That’s a heteronormative distinction that the vast majority of gay men don’t care about.

Definitely no relationships with an older guy lol. I really want a guy who is just 35+, and has experience that he can use to teach me a bit. And I totally get what you mean by how gay guys typically don’t care about your past sex life.

 

[PeterJoe]

It's a good idea, but don't do a Grindr hook-up. Go on a date, talk, get to knopw the man at least a little, so you feel safer and relaxed during the sex.