Losing virginity to a hooker ?

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    Not my actual virginity but I did hire a hooker after a sexual hiatus of about 6 years. Escorts can be wonderful people and some of them are really good at providing not only sex but companionship for that one hour or so.
     
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    save your money and wait for the right time and place!
     
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    it's not for me to judge.

    my fluffy ideals would wish everyone the chance to lose it with someone who loved them and made it magical, but life doesn't always work that way.

    if it works for you, if you treat her with respect and are sure to hire a pro rather than exploiting someone vulnerable, then there's no shame in it.
     
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    I never understood why your virginity mattered anyway. It's just sex.
     
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    I did for my first time, and it was quite good. I also saw escorts from time-to-time between relationships, and they were all good. Escorts can be wonderful people, especially if you as client act nicely towards them, and they are sexually very straightforward. They do see some dreadful men, so a good client stands out and often gets special attention. At the time, it was better sex than with my girlfriends. Friendly, easy-going, pleasant for an hour or two, and great sex.
     
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    It would've been nice, but just couldn't wait that long:redface:
    Then again maybe thats why most of the sex I get now is w/o love:frown1:
     
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    No, but I may lose my hooker virginity...
     
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    No. I toyed with the idea a bit in my teens, but I would have felt a bit ashamed to do it.

    It's not something I'd do, but I have a more mature view of hiring prostitutes now - so long as no coercion is involved, it shouldn't be a big deal.
     
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    i agree,one of my oldest friends(he's moved out west so we don't talk as much,just an e-mail here and there)
    when we were18-19 yrs old,he was really overweight with bad acne,and low self esteem.and he was down about everybody else having sex but him.so he went to a hooker...twice.
    he's lost the weight,he's in great shape,has a pretty wife,kids house,job ect.
    but when i talked to him two years ago he said he regretted the whole thing.he doesn't even like to talk about it.
     
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    I lost mine to a stripper at 17yrs old so I guess that is close enough... This was because none of my teen age girlfriends could get it in, but I sure tried!
     
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