Losing virginity to a large penis

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I have only had sex with women, but been increasingly interested to experience penis someday and get fucked myself. What really turns me on is a big cock.

I've been webcamming and chatting with this young cute feminine gay boy. The thing that he has in his pants is a monster of a cock! It must be like 10 inches.
I told him about my curiosity and he said if I ever come to visit him, he would fuck me and I would lose my virginity. After that he said it would hurt a lot and laughed :rolleyes:
He lives in another country, but I'm really tempted to go see him sometime.

Any comments, tips? I'm sure it would hurt, but is it totally impossible? Any ways to improve the odds to make it succesfull?
After the first try, could it be easier the next days or ass is going to need rest?
 

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I originally posted this on another thread.

Get a set of butt plugs, small, medium, large, and use them with plenty of lube to gradually stretch your hole, sitting on each one fully inside you until you're comfortable, then move to the next larger size. It's also about learning how to relax your anal sphincter and keep it relaxed while you're being penetrated. If your top is really big, you might want to add a thick dildo (thicker than the biggest butt plug) to this routine as a fourth butt plug.

I don't bottom much, so I always use them before I meet a top. I also use a lube injector before he gets inside me. Before doing all of this I douche (enema) so I'm clean to begin with.

If you already do this and still experience extreme pain, you may have medical issues, which is where my advice ends. You may need to see a doc.

BTW if you don't know how to relax your anus, it's like pushing when you defecate which relaxes sphincter muscles. When I'm being fucked by really thick dick, I'm pushing all the time just to take it. Narrower cocks I get to squeeze.

Hope this helps.
 

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Wow thanks so much for all the tips!
Any guesses how long time does it take to get used to the biggest butt plug or thick dildo?
What kind of pace would be good to go higher with butt plugs? This all happens day by day or faster?

This guy is really huge so it's going to make a lot of streching to my hole. Bleeding also in the first times?
 

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Your body will tell you, and you should listen to it. Google "anal fissure". This is what will happen in the worst case, and they take a while to heal, and you don't want that. With the butt plugs, go as far as you can, and when you feel pain you need to stop, relax and see if it goes away, if it doesn't, your body isn't ready for something that big. The same goes for when he tries to fuck you. If you feel pain then stop, relax and see if it goes away. If it doesn't, apologise to him, wash his dick and offer to suck him off instead.
 

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Bleeding also in the first times?

Pain = pause for a while, try again slowly.

Bleeding = stop, try again another day.

Copious bleeding or bleeding that's still going on hours later = see a doctor.

Some pain is fairly normal for your first time. It means you are going too fast. It should not be all painful, though - it should feel good. And bleeding should not happen. Bleeding means you should stop immediately.
 
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Traveling to another a country just to get fucked by a big dick is probably the worst idea ever in the history of ideas LOL Just saying...
 

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Thanks for the all the tips! Keep them coming if you can think of something. I can start preparing. I hope I can accommodate to his size. Any guesses, does it take maybe days, weeks or months to get used to?
Traveling to another a country just to get fucked by a big dick is probably the worst idea ever in the history of ideas LOL Just saying...
Lol, why you say that? We would probably hang out some days or a week. Also, this boy is so massively hung that makes me go crazy. I believe is very rare to find someone in that caliber and even get them interested to fuck you.