Twice in my life I had sex with virgins. Neither times were fun for either of us. The first time we were both virgins and I was unaware that even when a girl is wet after lots of foreplay, additional lubrication sometimes is still a must. It was wonderful intimacy, but we had to stop after about 5 minutes. The second virgin I was with, it was even worse. Even though I had learned about lubrication and literally spent hours that night being close, touching, licking, etc., I had to pull out almost as soon as I got maybe an inch more than my head inside, as it was too painful for her. And, yes, I was being as gentle as possible. In both cases, sex drastically improved pretty quickly after those initial couplings--thank God. Anyhow, I was wonderring if any of you "lost it" to a well hung lover, and if so, did that make a potentially difficult situation worse, as it did for my two early lovers? Did that have any impact on your sex life in subsequent relationships? Just a thought that I've carried around for a while. Thanks.