Losing your virginity with a large penis

[Kamelian]

Hey, i'm 23 years old and i've never really been into sex that much. I've always watched porn and whatever, but I never really tried to make moves on women.

I'm an average looking man, and I have a 7.5-8 inch dick (depending on how hard i am). I don't really brag about it, but on occasion it comes up in conversation and I tell people and they don't believe that I could possibly be a virgin if I have a large penis.

What I'd like to know is, what mysterious secret am I missing out on, and why would it be easier for someone who's larger to lose his virginity than someone who isnt.

Being a virgin implies nobody's seen my penis in the first place, so nobody even knows.

Recently I've really been trying to find a girl and sleep with her, i'm not picky who or why they sleep with me, I just want to get it out of the way without getting a hooker. How could I use this to my advantage.

 

[SDStudent]

Bigger men usually have higher confidence and high confidence leads to natural affluence. It's better if you use it as advantage while in bed though...

 

[D_Shia LePoof]

All just bragging rights. If you do it right to her, The girl will tell everybody (unless you get a good one) Don't rush it. You seem to be doing good. But a 8" dick should get some pleasure now & then

 

[Maysheepack]

Find an older woman. It's up to you if you want to bring up your size, but I think it can make things exciting.

 

[AlteredEgo]

I do not represent all women. But anytime a fairly dude has randomly told me he had a big dick while trying to impress me, I laughed at him. It's a huge turn off for me. On the other hand, if we've spoken more than once, if the chemistry is all there, if we've been a little explicit about our mutual sexual interest, a fun description of the peen has been known to go a long way with me. For me though, it hasn't been that the size impressed me, just his confidence and creativity. That happened a couple of times, and it was hot!

 

[Pendlum]

My size had nothing to do with me losing my virginity. Having good conversation/people skills and confidence will get you laid more than having a big dick. Using your dick to get laid is pretty much a losing strategy.

 

[art]

I never brag on my cock, but I invite new lovers to discover it for themselves. I lost my virginity to an older woman, and we had lots of good conversations before we had sex. The only thing she said about my cock (as she was fondling it through my jeans as we were making out before we had sex) was, "Ummmm, I like guys your size!"

 

[AlphaMale]

Small Dick = fake confidence, loud/obnoxious, a lot of over compensating (think the Jersey Shore guys), going to be all up in the girls face all night long, etc.

Big Dick = real confidence, listens/speaks softly and genuinely, doesn't have to go out of his way to prove anything, probably not going to be overly flirty or try to make it seem like he is really after the girl, etc.

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Unfortunately, most girls mistake the small dick characteristics for the big dick ones so you might be at a disadvantage.

 

[AlphaMale]

I wanted to add something to my post that I forgot to:

Small dick guys usually get way more play than big dick guys.

Girls confuse the small dick guy's boisterousness with true confidence and being genuinely interested and them, and they confuse the big dick guy's true confidence/laid back demeanor with arrogance and being uninterested in them.

Obviously, this won't hold true for every single person/scenario. Just my personal opinion. :wink: