Ladies, did you tell the guy you were a virgin? I didn't. Although i'm fairly sure he knew after the fact and just didn't give a shit. I didn't tell him because i was embaressed to admit it. Looking back now i know that's stupid. the next guy i slept with it took him ages to get me into bed and i'd told him upfront that i'd only had sex once and hated every minute of it (thankfully there were only 2 of them so it wasn't too traumatic.) So if you did or didn't tell him, would you change that decision now if you could? Do you think it would have made any difference?