I am a very straight 19 year old male who wants to lose his viriginity but doesnt really know how to go about sex. I was molested when I was 9 so I do have intimacy problems. I just want advice to go about losing it. None of my female freidns have said they are attracted to me in any way. I dont want to lose it on a random hook-up wih somebody I dont even know. I just need advice because this is a big pressure and stressor on me probably because I have this deep down fear that I'm unattractive and nobody will like me and want me. Any serious advice is helpful.