(Sorry that this is going to turn into a rant)
Hey, can any girls give me some insight.
Backstory:
My girlfriend was going through a depressive funk for the last few months. During that she has basically lost all of her libido. She doesn't like to kiss or have sex or anything. I haven't seen her naked in 2 and a half months and we have only had sex maybe a 4 times in that span. I don't know what to do. It's so frustrating. Don't get me wrong, I love her so much but this is driving me insane. Now I know i'm upset right now because I have blue balls. But it seems like she is actually liking the fact that she is driving me up the wall. She literally teases me. I can't handle it any more.
I'm starting to think that she is doing it on purpose just to drive me away. (i'm probably just over reacting by saying that).
Basically my question is how long can a libido take to get back to normal (we use to have sex 5 times a week on average)?
How can I talk to her about this without seeming like a horny asshole? I'm willing to wait this out and play with myself but ARGH. IT IS SO FRUSTRATING! Sex is a huge part of a relationship, especially at our ages (i'm 24. she's 21)
Hey, can any girls give me some insight.
Backstory:
My girlfriend was going through a depressive funk for the last few months. During that she has basically lost all of her libido. She doesn't like to kiss or have sex or anything. I haven't seen her naked in 2 and a half months and we have only had sex maybe a 4 times in that span. I don't know what to do. It's so frustrating. Don't get me wrong, I love her so much but this is driving me insane. Now I know i'm upset right now because I have blue balls. But it seems like she is actually liking the fact that she is driving me up the wall. She literally teases me. I can't handle it any more.
I'm starting to think that she is doing it on purpose just to drive me away. (i'm probably just over reacting by saying that).
Basically my question is how long can a libido take to get back to normal (we use to have sex 5 times a week on average)?
How can I talk to her about this without seeming like a horny asshole? I'm willing to wait this out and play with myself but ARGH. IT IS SO FRUSTRATING! Sex is a huge part of a relationship, especially at our ages (i'm 24. she's 21)