after losing a friend through a really bad fight and not speaking to each other for a while and now reuniting after years because of mutual friends all getting together in LA, i begin to see this friend more and more ... but its seems that words between us( as friends like years ago) are only exchanged when we go out for drinks with everyone and we are all drunk or atleast not sober. i do admit the tension is relaxed more and more only when i drink between us and when we run into each other sober we do not speak... is this a sign of a friendship that may or may not be fixed wondering if anyone has any info on an off an on friendship with people or any similar stories?