Lost libido?

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Hey guys. I have apparently lost my libido. I dont need to jerk off and am barely, almost not, horny these days. Most times I am really horny when I am not having sex, but I had an amazing last weekend and I feel like it was such a high, that I have nothing left.

For me, it seems like having sex kills off the sex drive, and because it was amazing, I dont need it. Mind you I have only jerked off three times since last thursday of last week, and all three times, I jerked off because I felt like I needed too, not necessarily because I wanted too. and the amount of volume was also very little and the force of ejaculation was almost not there, meaning that I was dribbling. I also didnt cum during the sex. I'm a bottom, so all I need is anal stimulation and I am happy.

Aside from that, physically, I am doing so much cardio and weights that its also not helping. I know that exercise can kill off libido too.

Anyone else go through something like this? I need to get it back up before I see the boo again. hopefully when I see the boo, the sight of him will make me libido reappear out of nowhere lol.
 

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Did ya check the Lost and Found? (That's where I found my libido.....) :biggrin:


seriously... I hope you get it back before you see boo again too...
I know what it is like to be with someone who's sex drive has plummeted ... but when you care about someone... sometimes just being close is good 'nuf.

If this is very recent, could it be medical? Maybe a check up wouldn't hurt.

Good luck

Fancy!
 

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For me when I lost it, I stopped jacking off in general and stopped watching porn. I worked out and did cardio also to sorta try to build up my testosterone and ate more protein based foods. I drank cranberry pomegranate juice for some blood flow (but not too much). Try to look up some fruits that can help boost you up a bit. Try to think positive also. Eventually it may arise when you least expect it, and often when you're with someone.

And g-damn, is your boo lucky. :eek:
 

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I really just think that I was soOoO sexually satisfied. It may be emotional too I think. I posted on another thread about my last weekend sexcapade. Long story short, the sex with the boo was the first sex in my life in which I felt beautiful naked. In previous sexual experiences, I was so insecure and worried about everything that I couldnt let it go.

A big part of it was the fact that my boo isnt that experienced either and so we explored together. We both never felt "that way" with another guy before and so we just accepted each other's faults and insecurities with no judgement. It was so easy being with him and there was this time when he asked me how he could make me feel better and no one has ever asked me that before either. Yup, the boo made me feel beautiful.
 

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Barson, that all sounds damn amazing and beautiful. You sound like you've reached a damn good spot that only others dream or wish to get. Good stuff.

If anything, just hold back, one again. And just allow yourself to just be.
 

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Hey check yur testoserone levels as it may me low which decreases as we age i eas feeling like that and checked mine and it was on the low side. now im good and horney all the time but liftin weights hard and sleepin right should help.
also make sure yur not making estrogen.u may be fixed with t shots or the one gel u put on your body
 

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You might look into maca. It's one of the super foods and is supposed to increase your energy and libido. I've taken it for about a month and I have noticed a difference. Just be careful not to over do it. There are some dangerous side effects if you do.
 

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well Im glad to say that some of the libido came back today. I was quite happy when I finally had the urge to jerk off today. Its still not the usual excitedness, but hopefully itll be back to normal levels soon. Im hoping that by the time I see my boo, ill be ready to go full force again, which shouldnt be that hard cause my boo turns me on like no other has before lol.