Lost much of sexual urge since meeting new bf

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  1. D_BarryBunwarmer

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    Ok, so I'm 28 years old and normally I'm a walking hardon. I pretty much masturbate 7 days a week. That is, up until I met my new boyfriend earlier this month. Since then, my urge to jack off and look at porn has greatly diminished. My sexual desire isn't gone completely though. When I'm with him and he touches me I instantly get hard. And when we have sex I have absolutely no problem performing. So when I'm around him, always hard. When I'm away from him, no desire to touch myself or look at other naked men.

    Is that normal?
     
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    I think youre in love. Enjoy.
     
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    Not sure if you really have an issue. When touched you get a hard on. What's wrong with that. See the doctor the moment you stop.
     
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    Quite normal. We masturbate for all sorts of reasons, including self comforting or boredom. With the new boyfriend in your life perhaps you have much less need to satisfy such motives now.
     
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    Sounds like you are in love.

    Enjoy it.
     
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    Pretty sure its normal and A-OK
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    more time to share wi someone else perhaps
    Maybe the body has adjusted to channeling all that sexual energy into yr partner rather than pretending to you, you were the only person in yr life, which you were at the time.

    GO with the flow,and hopefully you wont / don't go back to yr ole habits
    not that that was a major crime either ... hah
     
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    Your sexual desire is towards your boyfriend. THAT is normal.

     
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    Yes, that is perfectly normal.

    You are attached to someone sexually and/or emotionally and the thought of having sex with someone else isn't quite the same turn on.

    You can probably look and see something "nice" about other people, but it's not quite the same as what you have with your bf. I personally think what you have is a good thing. :wink:
     
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    yes that is love enjoy it
     
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    Awww. I love it when people get broadsided by love like that.

    Congratulations, you two!
     
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    It's not lost, for now it's preceded by the lightning in heart and the thunder in your ears.

    eventually you'll be able to screw in that kind of weather.
     
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    I guess you didn't lost it, you started to focus that specific attention on your boyfriend. Which I personally think should be how it it, sharing these feelings with the one your feeling so much for :biggrin1:
     
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    We did have a pretty great night last night celebrating New Years if you know what I mean ;)

    I've never been in love before. I don't know if that's what it is. But I do know that I've lost all desire to be with any other guy but him.
     
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