Lost pal due to size...

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meathose10: I can't access page two on this topic! Earlier I read it and noticed I was mentioned....I want to elaborate on this subject. Lots to say!

 

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Liberty9.5: You seem to be the only other one on page two, Len. I don't see anyone commenting about you. Perhaps you imagined it.

What is it you have to say about losing friends? Have you had a lot of practice at that?

 

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TragicWhiteKnight: [quote author=Liberty9.5 link=board=relationships;num=1051545218;start=20#21 date=09/02/03 at 14:44:31]

What is it you have to say about losing friends? Have you had a lot of practice at that?[/quote]

Boy, I could write a book on losing friends.

Oh...you mean due to size...never mind

 

[MASSIVEPKGO_CHUCK]

It can happen. I lost someone who I considered a good friend over this some odd yrs ago when I was starting enlargement techniques, and as fate would have it at the time, he was considerably bigger than me, and proved it by actually showing me. But as I worked at the enlargement techniques, and began to show some results, he began trying to dissuade me from using it by saying "It's phony, won't  do nothing" etc. Eventually, I had to keep my stuff under lock and key, he was so paranoid.

He eventually stopped talking with me altogether, and I haven't seen hide nor hair and I quite frankly am relieved, since I knew what he was before and after. So individual experiences can vary with respects to this sort of subject.    

 

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stephaneparis: dop him defenitly and come to see me in paris...
I will take care of you...

in other words, should you be tall or small or slim or fat...
or whatever, you will always meet stupid asses and wonderful guys (like me!)

he might just have been déstabilisé...
or may be so straight he is, may be he is a little gay and sex mided somewhere.
If you show yourself too straight, it is a kind of defense!

Just come to paris!

amitiés

 

[bigbens]

Let's see... you've got a big dick and he was once dating your sister. Perhaps after seeing you, he thought your sister had a big dick too. :smile:

 

[jeff black]

Let's see... you've got a big dick and he was once dating your sister. Perhaps after seeing you, he thought your sister had a big dick too. :smile:

Well Ben, this topic was discussed a few years ago... I imagine that the OP got things cleared up.

 

[thk8plus4u]

Well, i still think the original poster lost his friend due to his use
of the english language.

"...is a guy who use to date..."

"...ever since that me and him go along like brothers..."

"...ever sinse that he stoped..."

"... there is a great change in our rellation."

"... i tryed... he don't wanna answer..."


And it goes on and on. There's only so much you can
stand...

 

[transformer_99]

One of my closest and best friends is a guy who use to date my sister five years ago. Ever since that me and him go along like brothers and he really is my best pal.

A few months back we went to the bath house for a swim. Ever sinse that he stoped calling me regulary and I don't see him much often these days. From that day, at the bath house, there is a great change in our rellation.

I tryed to ask him what has happened but he don't wanna answer or he doesn't seem to understand why I'm asking.

It hits me that he'd never seen me nude before so I'm wondering if he got jealous 'cause I'm very hung (a shower) and that's why he don't wanna associate with me no more. Or maybe he found me disgusting or like a freak or something like that?

I can't think of any other reason for his behavor.

What do you think? Similar experiences?

Just because people tend to drift from a friendship, doesn't mean either of you is the bad guy in this. He has to do what he does with his lifetime, not everyone was meant to be together in some sort of relationship. There are people I made friends with, for one reason or another we drifted, they aren't bad people, but we both have to do what we have to do.

 

[rob_just_rob]

Well Ben, this topic was discussed a few years ago... I imagine that the OP got things cleared up.

There is always the off-chance that he's still checking the thread for updates.

I'm still hoping that somebody will answer the letter I wrote to Infocom in 1988, asking for help getting past the grues in ZORK. I feel like Charlie Brown every time I open the mailbox and there's no letter. :sad:

 

[D_Coyne Toss]

A friend of mine also changed his attitude to me after seeing me naked (hard, we were masturbating), but he did quite the opposite of yours. My size entered his mine, he asks me to show my penis to him again, because he felt dwarfed by it. He wants to know how i make love to my gf, and so on.

Regarding your experience, besides a sort of penis envy, it might also be that your friendship “dried up” as time passed by. You were friends as youngsters, and you might not have grown together.

 

[cofrader]

Now I finally found out why he was avoiding me for such a long time. He simply got horny for me (my dick) and he got affraid of his own feelings. That's why he stayed away from me.

We talked it out a few weeks ago and now everything seems to be fine

It was a happy ending story , after all :smile:

 

[snowflake]

It isn't your size why he's not communicating with you. It's because he knows you're bi. He might think that others also know you're bi and if he's hanging out with you, they'll think he's bi too. And he wouldn't want this misreputation to get around in the gym.