Actual sex was 19 & it was to a girl I'd known in high school. She was 3 years older than me & she totally schooled me! It was awesome. We still keep in touch but not sexually. She's married & I have a serious gf.
I had a few BJs from girls who, I now know, didn't really know what they were doing. But even a crappy BJ feels pretty freakin' great! :wink:
I did mess around with a girl around the block from me when I was like 10 or 11. I was an early developer & had a pretty big hardon for a li'l guy. We tried all kinds of things but I just couldn't fit it in her. We really had no idea what we were doing, honestly. So I don't count any of that. Her older brother found out & wanted to beat me up but, as I'm the youngest of older brothers, it was made clear to him that he'd knock it off.