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lol, if you ask me, i agree with apollo being a virgin does suck and for guys its a really akwerd thing 2 lose, escpeccially since we almost always know and hear we will cum when we 1st stick it in, but my advice well what i did was i was lucky and found a chick who already guessed i was a virgin at the time and thought it was kinda hot i guess she was taking mine, lol i guess i got kinda lucky, but if you wanna get laid, just be as bold as you can, i was shy also, but alot of chicks like confidence, hit up as many chicks as you can, don't be a horn dog but just make friends, its like planting multiple seeds, eventully you'll find one. And yes, if there is any doubt, you will i'm almost certain bust your nut the 1st few thrusts... try thinking of yer granny or something 2 stop you from getting so excited, turn off yes, but thats the point. :) (well i hope its a turn off...perves lol)
 

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I think is sort of pertinent to differentiate between those virgins that have some sexual experience, even kissing, (in this case a virgin would be someone who hasn't partaken in penetration) and those who don't have any experience at all. I form part of the latter, I have my own issues and hang-ups that may explain why this is the case, but I really want to know why others are like that, very bad experiences, "love-shyness", being interested in girls at an earlier age than normal?, and if so what is normal?, or is just an all around fuck up-ness in our persona...I guess I need a shrink.
You are exactly right. Some virgins say they talk with girls, go on dates, even kiss and make out, but never get to intercourse. But the other type just feels awkward around girls, has a hard time getting dates or sending the right signals. Some of these are not virgins but still struggle when meeting and interacting with new women. And these latter ones probably can eventually get to intercourse once they get to the point of kissing a girl and feeling comfortable around her.
 

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There is no advice that can apply to everyone, no panacea for getting pussy. I believe it's something that each guy must figure out on his own.And I'm coming to accept the fact that the only way guys like me are ever going to get some action is by using escorts.

I'm still not quite sure how I ended up in this predicament. I'm not ugly or socially awkward. I don't have any standards whatsoever. Seriously, any vagina will do. I guess I just lack that certain je ne sais quoi that women are attracted to.

Being involuntarily celibate is also the primary reason I started penis enlargement. I feel like if I can't have a sex life like other guys, at least I can have a bigger dick than them. Maybe years down the line, I'll look back with fondness at all the girls who rejected me, because by then I'll have a cock that would put most pornstars to shame. And it never would've happened if I were getting laid. :)
 
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I was a virgin up until a few weeks ago. I was 20 1/2 when I "lost" it. I never really felt the need to have sex. Btw, some of my friends think I'm still a virgin because I didn't cum during the session.
 

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You are exactly right. Some virgins say they talk with girls, go on dates, even kiss and make out, but never get to intercourse. But the other type just feels awkward around girls, has a hard time getting dates or sending the right signals. Some of these are not virgins but still struggle when meeting and interacting with new women. And these latter ones probably can eventually get to intercourse once they get to the point of kissing a girl and feeling comfortable around her.

For some reason girls (at least the ones I know) tend to get sort of turned off if they find out you're a virgin, like they don't want to just randomly take it.

Too bad they don't follow that thought pattern further and realize "Oh, SOMEONE is going to take it eventually." Which means there shouldn't be a problem taking someone's virginity. It's not like they are actively searching for virgins. Sometimes I wonder if short sightedness is a reason I'm still a virgin, or have never had a real relationship. :rolleyes:

However I do happen to be in the boat of guys who are online a lot. Frankly there isn't much to do here, I have no income (I'm looking for a job), so going out is hard. Then there is the fact that pretty much ALL of the women I meet are usually have, uh, a repelling personality to me. Any of them I happen to like show no interest in me. So it is more fulfilling to talk to women an here who are actually interesting, and actually LIKE me. Or at least that is how I rationalize it. :tongue:

Ah, my problems in a nutshell.
 

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I'm wondering what the effectiveness of just asking 20 random women at bars/clubs for sex would be hah. It's like russian roulette w/ std's though

"Just asking", directly, of them to take your virginity is probably not the soundest bet. :rolleyes:

But anyway... 1 out of 20 or less. If even top pick-up artists can leave a club or bar with a couple of numbers or less...you almost certainly will. It's called "getting lucky" for a reason.