loud during sex

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  1. Sir wheelers

    Sir wheelers New Member

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    Ok so I have been seeing that deaf girl i mentioned and its all been going good however when we have sex she basically screams pretty loud when she has an orgasm, I find it pretty hot but i doubt the neighbours do lol. My dad came to stop by the other day and heard us and asked me what i was doing to her lol. Ive not said anything to her about it but i think i should so do I ask her to try to keep it down a little ? I am not really too sure on how to approach this :confused:
     
  2. EmJay

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    put her hand on her mouth!...Just because she can't hear it doesn't mean anybody else can't..

    Or have an extra pillow handy..so she can stifle the sounds some..

    just tell her..its nothing to be ashamed of you know...
     
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    Up to you but if it were me I'd let her be loud.

    I was at a party and an ex-housemate mentioned how she used to always hear me and my girlfriend at the time having sex while she was anywhere inside or near the house. I said something to her like, "I hope we didn't make you feel uncomfortable." She said she was never uncomfortable and found it humorous, and her current living companions, 4 other people who all have significant others, she never hears and she thinks that's strange. I guess the most important question might be does it bother you. If not, wait for someone to complain; who knows your neighbors might get off on it.
     
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    Let her be loud... if that's her way...
    revel in it.

    Who the fuck cares about what other people think?
    If anyone ever complains... answer, " ...iPods and Earbuds."
     
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    Unless someone's complaining or it bothers you let it go. If she's enjoying herself, let her. I wouldn't recommend inadvertently making her uncomfortable about something that happens during sex. It could be a damper on her experience.

    You could always kiss her when she starts getting to loud, just saying since she doesn't really know how loud she is.
     
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    ok thanks guys. Well I do not want to interfere with her and no one has complained so Ill just let her do it and it doesnt bother me i find it a big turn on, and yeah i could try kissing her.
     
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    Well... was with a deaf guy once and that was sort of odd. With hearing aids he could faintly hear and read lips. He would take out the hearing aids when having sex. He wasn't loud, just made some VERY weird noises that he was totally unaware that he was even making. The hardest part was that I needed him to stop doing something and I basically had to grab his face so he saw what I was saying. Its tough, you might want to ask her the best way to communicate during sex... she may not even know she is making noise!
     
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    If you two were going at it 24/7 and you are constantly giving her big O`s thus making her scream out in ecstacy and being loud throughout, then yeah I could potentially see that being a problem to neighbours.

    But, you two aren`t having sex 24/7, and she only screams out when she orgasms which for the record most women tend to do, so what exactly is the problem here? And really why do you even give a shit what the neighbours think?

    They know your having sex AND that your making your woman scream with pleasure when she cums, I didn`t know this can be considered embarassing. Just relax, and let her cum her own way, if that means screaming out loud then let it be man, just let it be....

    What was the problem again?
     
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    One word and that is communication. But, for the most part just move sex with this young lady to where people would not be bothered if you can and tell her that. I also agree that if you up the temperature with a well placed "tongue" when she starts getting close you might just intensify things for her which is good which is good while cutting down the noise for those that may not appreciate it.
     
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    Sorry Fuzzy... dead wrong... if you are bringing a woman to orgasm, and you are thinking about what the neighbors think... then you are ruining the moment with shit you don't need to be concerned with.

    When some prude makes some sarcastic remark about the music she makes in ecstasy, look them square in the eye and tell them that this is precisely why God, in his infinite wisdom, designed their index fingers to fit neatly into their ears. Deal with it.
     
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    I dont know if she knows she is making noise but it does turn me on lol. Its not like i think about the neighbours whilst we are having sex. It just came to my mind after my dad mentioned it to me was all.
     
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    I understand what others have said about communication. But if you said something to her it could bother her to the point of her concentrating on not making any sound... which I would think could be very hard. If she's thinking about that she's not going to be JUST feeling the act she's going to be worrying about being quiet.

    Plus, did you stop to think that since she's deaf the sounds she's making are completely natural? She's never gotten to hear fake porn screams or any of the other nonsense. She's expressing her feelings in a pure way.

    I think it's awesome.
     
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    Yea its awesome, also, if you make your gf scream like that, thats something to be proud :biggrin1:
     
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    Thank you!

    With the right stimulation, I am loud and have no control over it. Always appreciate men with enough confidence to allow me the space to have those moments where I am a bit primal and out of control while building/experiencing a deep orgasm.

    Which is how I knew I picked a winner in my bf - it actually gets him off when I reach that state. Recently, a partner was hitting just the right spot for 5-10 minutes and I was sure every neighbor could hear me... but he was, as always, very cool, smiled, and said he enjoyed it. *keeper*
     
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    I love this! What a cool point!

    Unlike SG83 though, I think you should tell her about the sounds she's making. Yes, it might embarrass her. But can you imagine how much more embarrassed she'd be if she's unaware she's making them, and a neighbour or relative brings it up one day? With her not even prepared for the question or comment? Just make sure you tell her in such a way that she knows you enjoy the sounds and don't mind her making them.

    You should also be aware that she may be unable to prevent them. For some of us, it's close to impossible to be quiet during sex. I do the best I can when necessary, but still end up having my mouth stuffed with bedding, a gag, a tongue or fingers.
     
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