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Those of you who have read my posts will know that I have a Japanese lover. We met when I was posted to Tokyo, and since my transfer to New York , we've conducted a long-distance relationship.
His English is generally outstanding. My Japanese is total crap. (But my drunken cab-driver Japanese is without compare, I hasten to add. Mo chotto massugu, (o) kudesai. So des ne?)
I spoke with my beloved on the phone tonight. And you know what? Our love is as strong as ever. But his English is going downhill in my absence.
Here's a case in point. -y is an adjective. Something has a point, so it's pointy. Something has might, so it's mighty.
Can he get a visa in this year's allocation from the INS? "That's a bit doubty..." he says.
Hmmmm...
Previous phone call. "My friend was so ashamed because he cooked us such a misery dinner." I have heard him use the word miserable correctly before.
We all know that practice and environment are all-important in language proficiency. My Japanese (such as it was) has gone south since I've found no need for it.
Question: can love flourish without language?
When family and loved ones ask me about my relationship, I tell them it's easy to fall in love with no language at all. My boy and I did--it was love at first sight. But if you want to have a really good argument, your language has to be pin-point accurate.
What are your thoughts, LPSG wise men (and women)?
I particularly look forward to the thoughts of Gisella. (and Alex8, but I look forward to his thoughts on everything)
HB8
His English is generally outstanding. My Japanese is total crap. (But my drunken cab-driver Japanese is without compare, I hasten to add. Mo chotto massugu, (o) kudesai. So des ne?)
I spoke with my beloved on the phone tonight. And you know what? Our love is as strong as ever. But his English is going downhill in my absence.
Here's a case in point. -y is an adjective. Something has a point, so it's pointy. Something has might, so it's mighty.
Can he get a visa in this year's allocation from the INS? "That's a bit doubty..." he says.
Hmmmm...
Previous phone call. "My friend was so ashamed because he cooked us such a misery dinner." I have heard him use the word miserable correctly before.
We all know that practice and environment are all-important in language proficiency. My Japanese (such as it was) has gone south since I've found no need for it.
Question: can love flourish without language?
When family and loved ones ask me about my relationship, I tell them it's easy to fall in love with no language at all. My boy and I did--it was love at first sight. But if you want to have a really good argument, your language has to be pin-point accurate.
What are your thoughts, LPSG wise men (and women)?
I particularly look forward to the thoughts of Gisella. (and Alex8, but I look forward to his thoughts on everything)
HB8