Love being called names during sex

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  1. Charlene

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    I was just wondering if it is just me or any of you ladies out there love to be called names ("b...., w...., s...") and similar while having sex s well?
     
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    i love all kinds of dirty talk. namecalling is really sexy. unfortunately not many women like to engage in it, but the first one that did totally got me off on it. i wish more women liked it..

    also wow Charlene, i'd call you anything you wanted.
     
  3. WildHoney

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    I like it BUT only by men I know VERY well. I like dirty talk during sex, but I have to know that is not what you really think of me, to relax and enjoy it for what it is. I don't want any aggression or macho bullshit associated with it.

    When I enjoy it, I am in fanasty land , I like the playfulness of it and the naughtiness.

    If it was a one nighter or a random guy, then no, I'd be put off by him calling me a slut or a whore during sex.

    I think there is a time and place for it, and you need to be a pretty good judge of "mood" and what a woman wants, to start randomly doing it. Start gentle, and see how she reacts.

    Communication beforehand is also important, if it is something you LOVE, tell her, and maybe tell her it is a fantasy thing, and reinforce that is not how you actually see her, jut something that turns you on.


    xxx

    Honey
     
  4. whatireallywant

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    Absolutely hate it!
     
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    I much prefer being called angel, princess and other nice things, I'm a soppy tart at heart :)
     
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    Now, if you guys want to call me these things, I'm fine with that! :smile:

    I'm kind of uncomfortable with "dirty talk" in general, for some reason, but would be particularly uncomfortable with calling me names - I'd see it as more of an insult than a turn on.
     
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    I sometimes would use "love slave" or "slave" for my ex.... she loved that.

    Once I called her a cock hungry slut... oops. She didn't like that... in fact, the night ended right there.
     
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    With a long term partner I don't mind it so much, calling someone a dirty slut while you can see them grinning in delight isn't so bad :) I just prefer nice names.
     
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    You mean names like Jenny, Lisa and Charlene?

    :rolleyes:
     
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    It truly depends on the woman. I agree with what Princess said. The names are endearing unless I am requested to give others!
     
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    As long as she doesn't want me to call her "mother", "sister", "aunt", or "grandma". :eek:
     
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    What is with everyone and editing words.. or is this my browser doing that. Bitch, WHORE, SLUT, CUNT, SHIT, FUCK, MOTHERFUCKER....

    We are all adults here we aren't going to die seeing these words.



    Oh yeah.. I'm partial to being told I'm a good girl.
     
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    You just got me wet, stop that you bad girl :)
     
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    Think Kink - I was wondering the same thing. I keep seeing c**k, etc, in forum posts and was worried LPSG was moderating swear words!!

    I know now they are not as I can clearly see your - shit cock motherfucker.


    xx

    Honey
     
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    Tk, you've been a very good girl. Now come sit on daddy's lap :naughty:
    (I couldn't type this without laughing, this is SO not me)
     
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    i enjoy the dirty talk, kinda makes me more wet!
     
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    I was thinking the same thing,glad I'm not the only dirty old man!:18:
     
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    My girlfriend likes to talk dirty, but I don't call her names like slut or whore. I usually tell her how "fucking sexy and hot" she is. Things like that.
     
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    I love giving sexy/dirty compliments during sex:

    "Fuck you look so damn good with my cock in your mouth."

    "Damn baby, not only are you super sexy, you're a mighty fine fuck."

    "You love that big cock in your tight, silky pussy?"

    Something like "Attagirl you nsty little cocksucker" is about as close as I'll get to name calling.


    But I had one past GF who liked name calling and while I'd never do that without permission, it could get hot since it turned her on so much.
     
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    I don't mind bitch or slut but when he starts with the whore it feels degrading. If he wants to fuck a whore then he can go pay for one and not expect me to give him the same treatment for free
     
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